Breaking Up With The Mother of Your Child…Consider the IF’s & THEN’s



no_baby_mama_drama_Not trying to ruffle any feathers, but back in the day there was a playground rhyme called K-I-S-S-I-N-G…about two kids sitting in a tree. “First comes love, then comes marriage and then comes the baby in the baby carriage!”

To have children under these circumstances is probably best. However, nowadays it seems like this old-school wisdom is outdated and often ignored. Sometimes when things are not done in the order of “love..marriage..baby”, life can become problematic and complicated very quickly. Many issues can arise, but take note of the following:

  • IF a man doesn’t want his child around another man, THEN he needs to stick around in a committed relationship with the mother.
  • IF a man wants “say-so” in what his child can or can’t do on a daily, THEN he needs to make sure his child lives in his house.
  • Ultimately, IF a man wants to control how and where his seed will grow, THEN he needs to “plant” the mother in his own garden~ and THEN water, feed and fertilize her.

Simply put… IF you are not committed to a woman, THEN don’t get her pregnant. Just don’t! Life will be so much easier. Otherwise, the most sacred act of mankind (having a child) that is supposed to be a joy can turn into a lot of pain. Don’t expect a woman to walk away from a relationship with you and not start something new. That’s unrealistic and highly unlikely. She will move on, just as you will. And let me add, absolutely no one has the right to judge when it’s too soon.

IF a man gets a woman pregnant and THEN abandons her…expect drama! You can’t control who will be around your child. Likewise, she can’t control whom you will have your child around. Take heed and just do right by women. Choose your woman wisely and then DO RIGHT, always consider the IF’s and THEN’s when you break up with the mother of your child!




2 responses to “Breaking Up With The Mother of Your Child…Consider the IF’s & THEN’s”

  1. Jadapooh2 says:

    absolutely!!!!!

  2. Doc Mel :-) says:

    Just saying…. Doc Mel 🙂

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