OMG! Is that Swizz Beats baby mama? Wow I guess those reality show checks are panning out because she SURLEY didn’t look like this pre-divorce. LOL! Mashonda is finding her way back to herself after a messy divorce last year. She is the star of the new hit reality show “Hip Hop and Love” and is creating her own lane. She recently got the opportunity to sit down with King Magazine and speak her truth.
Check out her in depth interview:
KING: Can you explain the â€œLoyaltyâ€ tattoo on your hand?
MASHONDA: I got it a year after everything started going downhill. Itâ€™s a reminder to me that I have to be loyal to myself for once.
I was so loyal to everyone, and I totally forgot about me. This is what it representsâ€”it represents loyalty to self. Now I have to do things that I love to do, and I have to make myself happy, because I donâ€™t really agree when people say, â€œI need a man â€™cause I want to be happy,â€ or â€œIâ€™m not happy because I donâ€™t have a man.â€ Thatâ€™s not where it starts. Happiness starts from within, and thatâ€™s in my focus.
Youâ€™re also focused on Love & Hip-Hop. So the show does not revolve around you.
Exactly. I did a few episodes [first], then ended up doing a lot of episodes because the chemistry was perfect with me and Emily. I ended up being a recurring guest, and it worked out perfectly, because Iâ€™m on the show and people get to see me and hear my stories. But itâ€™s not like a character thatâ€™s 100 percent there.
What is your role with Emily?
Iâ€™m like her support system, her counselor. I feel like a female Dr. Phil. That person who gives her advice and is not afraid to tell her my story and show her my life, â€™cause I really want her to get hers together.
How awkward was it for you to be the shoulder to lean on?
At the time that we shot, I was in a great place, so thatâ€™s what made the difference. I felt like that was my therapy, and thatâ€™s all I wanted to do. Anytime Iâ€™d log in to Facebook or Twitter, there would be tons of women reaching out to me, thanking me for sharing my story. Those messages gave me a lot of strength, a lot of courage. From that point on, I just wanted to help women, and Emily being a good friend of mine, it was easy for me to go on there and talk to her and be honest.
How are you going to handle all the groupies that are sure to be coming your way?
You mean the groupie boys?
Or groupie girls. You never know.
Yeah, you never know. I mean, they all love me.
After they see this spread, theyâ€™ll love you more. Word to Angela Winbush.
[Laughs] Oh, Lord, you know what, I show everybody love. But I donâ€™t like the word â€œgroupieâ€â€”itâ€™s so harsh. I donâ€™t feel thereâ€™s anything wrong with one person admiring another person.
Who is admiring you nowadays? Have youâ€™ve been hitting the dating scene lately?
I have. I recently went on a date, and it was incredible.
Sounds like homeboy is getting a call back.