Elite Responds To Her Sister Keyshia’s Statement & Too Everyone Out Side Looking In

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Today the homie Elite sent over an email that talked about the love she has for her family, and how people think they know whats going on but have know idea. Here is the email…

To: All Those Who Are On The Outside Looking In,

Now I cant speak for others I can only speak for myself. I have done Absolutely nothing wrong! I was asked a question by Fans and I Responded with a Truthful and Honest answer! It is K.C’s choice not speak and have no communication with me for her own Personal Issues! I Believe that My Son and My Sister Neffe’s Children should not be Involved.I have supported My Sister Keyshia in her Career,became her Personal Assistant at one point,love her genuinely,and even Supported her decision on dating Mr.Gibson! Ive Earned and Worked for everything i have received in the last 4years. I Pray someday we will all realize that we are Family and must stick together! Hopefully Keyshia will allow her Biological Family be apart of her New Family, I would Hate to miss out on the joy of her New Addition(Baby Boy Or Girl) After all we’ve been through,were all human,no one is perfect,no family is exempt! Indeed My Mother Frankie needs Help and I Intend to do everything I can, but i will never Disown nor give up on her just because of the Judgement of people cold/cruel Hearts. She gave me Life and I Respect her for that.

I Trust, Believe and have Faith in GOD which is why I’m blessed(Appreciative and Grateful) Through all the Challenges that comes my way their is a Lesson Learned, I’m taking notes and ready to take these Challenges Head On. I have not used anyone!!!!!!! Held my own even before the Lights, Camera, Action! My Mother has done things that any parent would for her children but she does not take care of me under any circumstance(nor anyone else for that matter) My son is well taken care of by me and his father as well. No one owes me anything! I GRIND daily and will continue to do so while still have a Loving,Supportive Adoptive Family By My Side who has been there since birth. When you have PEACE and HAPPINESS within yourself then their is nothing no one can do or say to take that away……No Love Lost……Live to Love Life ELITE NOEL

109 COMMENTS

  1. OH ELITE, somebody please give u a grammy or an oscar! Dont try and throw Keyshia under the bus on the cool….Congratz to u doin what ur SUPPOSE to do, takin care of urself and ur family. Keyshia says she loves yall…simply stated, she just CANT DO YALL. And who HONESTLY came blame her? I mean really. Think about it. Yall dont even have enough RESPECT for urselves, let alone Keyshia. When people dont support ur growth, u have to cut em loose. Even if its FAMILY. TEAM KEYSHIA COLE…

  2. Also…just to add…the mere fact that you felt u needed to respond with YOUR OWN STATEMENT…i mean, who does that? Who r u? Another example of yall exploiting Keyshia and keepin her in some shit…If u really cared, u would nt hv even responded…..

  3. Coming from someone who works w/ them all. Elite is very much right. Family is family. And business is biz. You can’t kick your family out your life and have Gods approval. Seeing this first hand I must say that the ones Keyshia is knockin is the ones trying to reach out the correct way. I’m very disappointed in Keyshia. And admire Elites courage to keep it kool and honest.

  4. Ur right, family is family. Did Keyshia say she hated her family? Is Elite and Neffe and the kids in a homeless shelter? R they hungry? I dont think so…Im sure if they REALLY needed Keyshia she would be there. Keyshia if you are reading this, there is NOTHING wrong with cuttin off communication w/ ur family. Pray about it and move on….when they get it together and can bring some positive energy ur way, then hey…untill them, u gotta put urself and ur baby boy’s sanity first. While everybody’s pointing the finger at Keyshia, can u imagine how hard this is on her? Sometimes the hardest things to do are the best things to do. I admire Keyshia for her growth and courage to step away.

  5. I do not know what went on…but as far as I’m concerned FAMILY is always FAMILY!!!! You should never cut them off…ESPECIALLY the children because they have nothing to do with it. Keyshia seems to me as if she has become to STUCK UP for the real! Neffe, Elite, Frankie…they are all living their lives as any other, siblings or parents would. At least they dont have their hand out! She should be appreciative for something. In life you have to except the people that are given to you by GOD (brothers,sisters, PARENTS) for who they are! I believe that Neffe has come a long way since the beginning of the “The Way It Is.” Frankie has been Frankie for 20yrs+…so for them to expect her to come from being one person. And doing a 360 into someone else is UNREALISTIC!

  6. Elite you mean your drug head baby daddy?elite that’s not a good look for you r your son r keyshia, with your skinny ass baby daddy posting coke,weed,etc pictures online….. then you left him with him i hope dfax step in because it’s clear you don’t use the right judgement when it comes to your child…there’s noway will i ever leave my child with his dad and i know he’s using hard drugs and posting them online making me look bad. that’s hoodrat shit

  7. I think keyshia more mad at neffe and frankie i don’t think it’s so much elite..i think keyshia don’t like sollow……but keyshia ya’ll push ya’ll mother back out there on crack by the way ya’ll treat her..keyshia your foster mother seem like she’s the one who hhas her hand out money hungry man

  8. Ok Frankie been Frankie for 20 yrs…WHICH IS ALL THE MORE REASON if she aint tryin to get her shh together, then immma let FRANKIE be FRANKIE another 20 yrs without me. That family gives me a headace just watching them on tv,….I can only imagine what Keyshia is goin through

    And I just re read Elites statement and she says, she was simply responding to a fans question…BULLSHHH…u not that dumb where u didnt know that what u said would make front page news…Why did u feel like u owed it to the “fan” to tell them yall family business. Furthermore, in case u missed the memo, CHRISTMAS AINT ABOUT GIFTS and Keyshia didnt have to get her neices and nephews nothing…Didnt yall get paid for Frankie and Neffe show?

  9. – Woahh ; So deep !
    Well , as a big fanatic of Keyshia Cole – -I support any and everything she and whomever does ; but there are some things that I often can agree/disagree on [ for the better ). Indeed, I have grown attached to this family like they are my [ own ) ; it’s [ sadden ) to me to see this going on … they have grown alot and all i want to see is ’em being a family again. Ok, on KC’s behalf – – I’m not saying i’m not happy for her, which I am VERY Proud of her and happy to see she’s happy, but other than that for her siblings behalf ELITE & NEFFE – – to me they bothh ( in my eyes ] are progressing for NEFFE better on her OWN for once ; w/o the help of her sister and ELITE , indeed it’s great to have seen her grow and continuously on her [ ownn ) GRIND !! Okay, in response to this [ email ) : Yes, KC was a bit wrong on the part of dis-owninq her biological mother; if that . But ( from ] the bottom of a true supporter’s [ heart ) ……. Family can sometimes bring you down ; but the fact that Keyshia decided not to communicate with her siblings and mother to me was not really a bad thing – – because I mean – – there’s a time for everything but regardless of the fact NO COMMUNICATION or whatever – – – I know that she LOVES HER FAMILY DEARLY . Well thats all i have to say ,
    [ no hurt feelings toward no one ) I LOVE & SUPPORT each and every last one of ’em, by that I just WANT ALL ISSUES RESOLVED & PRAY THEY COME TOGETHER AS A WHOLE. 🙂
    & leaving with this quote : ” Never forget the three powerful resources you always have to you : LOVE , PRAYER , and FORGIVENESS ” !

    PS: I say ” They can forgive each other , but neither one will ever forget ”
    Much Love From ,
    a TRUE SUPPORTER

  10. To HUH?? or whatever that wasnt her son’s dad…that was Sam their brother. Who was also on “The Way It Is” for one season!

  11. TO: jameile
    A PERSON CANNOT CHANGE WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN DOING FOR 20YRS STRAIGHT OVERNIGHT. IF IT TAKES 20YRS TO FUCK IT UP…IT MIGHT TAKE 40YRS TO FIX IT UP! Thats a part of life thats not just with Frankie…I agree she should not take care of them financially. And I also AGREE that she doesnt have to get ANYBODY anything for Christmas because NO that is not what it is about…..HOWEVER, she exploited they asses in the first place. And to think you can just come out with a statement as if you will not get a response is ridiculous! Why should they shut up when she is making it seem like they are just a DRAMA filled family. And thats why she doesnt want to have shit to do with them…I will always support Keyshia’s music. But that does not mean I have to support the decisions she is making…When really my opinon shouldnt matter to her when it comes to her family…only music so she couldve saved that letter to her fans ABOUT HER FAMILY!

  12. AND TELLING THE FAMILIES BUSINESS???? IN THE WORDS OF NEFFE “ARE YOU SERIOUS” ALL OF THESE PEOPLE WERE INTRODUCED TO US BY KEYSHIA COLE…THEM LIVING IN THE HOOD DIDNT GET THEM ON TV…KEYSHIA DID! SO WHAT DO U MEAN?

  13. TO me…trust me I hear what ur saying…but what im asking u is, when is enough, enough? If Frankie isnt trying to change..or wont allow Keyshia to help her, then what is she suppose to do? Keep stressing out behind her? Continuing to get embarassed in front of the world? Frankie walked out of prison/fire camp with an opportunity most would kill for. Her daughter a famous millionare willing to give her all the help she needed. I dont know Frankie personally, but lets just say she is sick. Has Keyshia not tried to help? Seriously? What else can u do? Hell Neffe said it best, MY HAPPINESS IS MY SANITY! And if my family is interfering with that, then we have a problem.

    ANd im sorry, in case u missed the memo, it DID NOT take Keyshia’s statement to make Frankie, Elite, and Neffe, look like Drama filled family. All one had to do was tune in at 9pm on Tuesday on BET, log onto twitter, tune to Ryan Cameron, Freddyo.com, u name it, sweetie, one of them was there making a fool out of themselves and Keyshia. But to answer ur question, why they shouldnt have responded? Becuz if u truly didnt do anything Elite, just shut up. Dont add fuel to the fire cuz u feel like u just HAVE TO RELEASE a statement. Girl SIT DOWN! What it comes across as u tryin to keep the shit going and throw ur name out there when half the people could careless. People would much rather here from Neffe than ELite.

  14. Keyshia Cole introduced us to them….something Im sure my girl KC regrets on a DAILY…be that as it may…….ur point is? Trust me im sure she didnt want it to take a turn like this.

  15. And just to keep it ALL the way 100….some aint gon like this, but didnt Frankie give Keyshia up years ago to Mrs. Cole? Riiiggghhhhttt, so technically, Keyshia has a family. Some foster children NEVER seek out relationships with their biological families. Nobody ever talks down on them. Hell Keyshia tried to make it work and what they all do, backstab her…Baby u couldnt pay me to be in the company of Elite and them if I were Keyshia. After ALL she has done for them. I do hope they all eventually forgive each other and move on… but KC should keep them at arms length.

  16. First off to jameile everyone make mistakes so what if frankie is doing frankie as long as her FAMILY don’t turn their backs on her and take steps to get her help, you can’t turn into a queen overnight! And who are you to give advice to keyshia let her make her own decision and I commend elite for even reaching out to her sister cause when all is said and done when the glitz and glam is gone who do you have at the end family who cares if you think their ghetto I’m sure your family is not perfect so don’t read a book by it’s cover, know something before you speak on it..please

  17. TO ‘A FRIEND WHO WORKS WITH ALL THEM’ ITS OBVIOUS THAT KEYSHIA HAS CUT YO ASS OFF TOO SO YOUR 2 CENTS WORTHS MEANS NOTHING. HELL YOU BETTER AGREE WITH ELITE AND ‘EM YOU NEED WHATEVER CHECK YOU HAVE LEFT COMING IN AFTER KEYSHIA CUT THINGS OFF………RECESSSION!!!!!! JENNY JONES!!!!

  18. The point is SHE BROUGHT this on herself….EITHER way it goes…She leaves them alone…THEY’RE STILL HER FAMILY….She continues to deal with them THEY’RE STILL HER FAMILY….If they are stressing her out its only because she is trying to hard to change something that she CAN NOT change. She needs to let the LORD do his work and be ther when they need her (emotionally not financially). AND TO ME THAT LETTER DID LOOK LIKE THEY WERE TOO DRAMA FILLED FOR HER! EVERY FAMILY HAS DRAMA NOT JUST HERS! I do agree that people would want to hear from Neffe…BUT Elite IS the one who responded to those tweets…so she was right for coming out and saying her piece on a situation that was caused by her! AND ONCE AGAIN HAD IT NOT BEEN FOR KEYSHIA COLE THEY WOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN EXPLOITED IN SUCH A WAY…THERE ARE A LOT OF FAMILIES THAT GO THROUGH THIS…JUST NOT ON TV!

  19. @ jameile
    KEYSHIA BROUGHT THIS ON HERSELF……….AND SHE KNEW FOR A LONG TIME WHO HER MOTHER WAS…AND WHO NEFFE WAS! SHE BROUGHT ELITE INTO THIS MESS!

  20. @Nikki…trust me, my family is far from perfect…..far….ur right, dont judge a book based on its cover. But the HARSH reality of it is, the images we see are the images Frankie, Elite, Neffe…put in front of America to view.

    Again I pose the question Niki…when is enough, enough? At what point does Keyshia fall back and say, I cant take this/them anymore? Is it when she miscarries her baby becuz of stress? Is it when she is cryin everyday? Is it when she is broke trying to take care of them? Is it when her career / image is ruined becuz of them? I mean seriously?

    Yall need to realize that UR HAPPINESS and PEACE of MIND comes before any and everybody/thing else….why r yall knockin Keyshia just becuz she wants to be happy? COme on, we have all seen this family on tv…….

  21. Did Keyshia say she hated her family? Did Keyshia say she never wanted to have anything to do with her family? Did I miss something? Keysh said, she dont have communication with them…What is the big fuckin deal about that? Dnt yall act like its people in ya family u dont fuck with. Lets all step off soap box for JUST A MIN and eat some humble pie

  22. IT IS OKAY TO NOT HAVE COMMUNICATION WITH SOME OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS…BUT YOUR MOTHER, SISTERS AND BROTHERS….I WOULDNT GIVE A DAMN WHOS FAMILY IT WAS….THAT IS NOT RIGHT! AND EVEN IF YOU DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH THEM…WHY THE FUCK DO YOU HAVE TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD?

  23. AND AS 4 ELITE ITS EASY FOR U2 SAY & FEEL THE WAY U DO B/C U HAVEN’T BEEN THE ONE BEING PULLED IN 5 MILLION DIRECTIONS, KEYSHIA HAS BOO!!! AND YOUR LOVE & SUPPORT IS ALL EVERYONE HAS WANTED FROM U B/C THEY KNEW THAT’S ALL U HAD AND THEY COULD GET FROM U. SHE’S WORKED 2 GET WHERE U ALL ARE AND HAS THE MOST 2 LOSE BY U GUYS ACTING LIKE A BUNCH OF HOODRAT MONKEYS OUT HERE. EMBARRASIING THE SHIT OUTTA HER. AND ITS QUITE OBVIOUS YOU’RE THE FAMILY MEMBER THAT FRANKIE SAID ON V-103 HAD NO BUSINESS TALKING THAT MESS. YOU’RE PISSY B/C SHE DIDN’Y BUY YOUR KID ANYTHING 4 CHRISTMAS…. RECEIVING A GIFT FROM SOMEONE IS NOT AN OBLIGATION BUT AN ACT OF UN-NECESSARY KINDNESS ON THEIR PART….SO GO BUY YOUR OWN KID’S SHIT AND STOP WHINING!!!! FAMILY OR NOT U ALL(ESP U) CAME ALONG WHEN THE TRAIN WAS ALREADY ROLLING NOT WHEN IT WAS TRYING 2 GET STARTED. SO U SHOULD ALL BE APPRECIATIVE THAT SHE BROUGHT U ALONG 4 THE EXPERIENCE AS LONG AS SHE DID. JUST UN-FUCKING-GRATEFUL!!!! JENNY JONES!!!!!

  24. I feel elite have every right to respond to the statement .KC put the family business out so y is it an issue that Elite felt she had to respond. To all of you who dont know the issue over the gifts a fan simply asked elite what did Kc buy for the kids. Her response was nothing!! i didnt know it was a crime to keep it real. Family is always gonna have its up’s and downs but seperation is never the answer cus the problem will never be resolved. KC knew how her fam was before she put them out on TV so wats the issue now. IS IT THE FAME??? they know have. And to all these hating ass bitches if u cud care less about elite then bitch quit writing she can say what the fuck she wanna say. You haters are motivating her. Jus cus you watched the reality show yo hoes think you know it all. You have no idea. reality aint reality you silly rabbits. Know the facts before you guys start talking all that bullshit bout wat yall think yall know. and one comment asked who was Elite??? bitch she obviously relevant to you cus you took the time to respond. also you have no clue about her childs father that didnt have shit to do with her statement. you sound as if you’re a hoodrat. Elite has alot of love and respect for KC and never once disrespected her in this statement. she felt she had the need to respond to HER FANs, and HATERS. My girl was the most sane one on the show and sounds very humble in this letter. So no she aint asking for no fucking grammy she just keeping it solid cus thats the kind of person she is. And i dont understand people, why r you guys so happy she dosen’t want shit to do with her family?? i love KC and the whole family but i dont support her decision. BY the way the person with the screen name ME, Its obvious your a hater. SMFH

  25. TO THE “LONGTIME FRIEND” I AM NOT HATING ON ANY OF THESE PEOPLE. I LIKE KEYSHIA, AND BOUGHT EVERY ALBUM THAT SHE HAS! BUT I DO NOT AGREE WITH THE DECISION THAT SHE MADE! PERIOOOOOOOOODDDDD. SO GET OUTTA HERE WITH THAT SHIT!

  26. Jennifer Im not happy she doesnt want to have anything to do with her family. Not at all. Im happy becuz KEYSHIA CHOSE HAPPINESS. KC chose to be happy. And thats not always an easy thing to do when u have to choose between u and ur family. Ur right, I dont know Elite…but Elite comes across as fame hungry…and an attention seeker. Yes a “fan” asked Elite what did Keyshia buy the kids for Xmas…..ok and Elite told the truth…but why even feed people drama..Elite knew what she was doing. Jennifer u know that. Keyshia loves her Elite just as much as she Elite loves her. But im sorry, I be damned if I let my family still MY JOY especially when they didnt give it to me. Keyshia has too much at stake.

  27. The bottom line is that Keyshia is pregnant and maybe she just doesn’t want all the drama right now and when she has her son. She has done as much as she can for her family and now it’s time for her to take care of herself and her child. The family should be supporting her for once instead of airing the family issues on twitter, freddyo etc. Let her enjoy her life for once. Yes, it’s sad that she has cut off communication with the family, but damn, can you blame her. Keyshia does not want her child born into drama and chaos like it was when she was born. If you are a family and you care about

    your sister, you would not be responding. The media is good for fueling the fire and Elite, you are falling right into their trap. If you don’t like how KC is treating you, then you either leave her alone or try and work things out. You don’t do it this way.
    You wrong for this Elite. You Wrong!!!

  28. AND LET ME JUST SAY THAT I WILL CONTINUE TO SUPPORT KEYSHIA….BUT I WILL ALSO SUPPORT HER FAMILY! I PRAY THAT THEY CAN ALL COME TOGETHER IN LOVE EACH OTHER FOR WHO THEY ARE! KEYSHIA NEEDS TO REMEMBER THAT YOU ONLY GET ONE MOTHER…THAT YVONNE LADY MIGHT HAVE RAISED HER BUT SHE WIL NEVERRRRRRR BE HER “MOTHER”

  29. Thank you Mone! Someone with some sense…if they love Keyshia sooo much, leave her alone. Its obvious she dont wanna be bothered

  30. @ ME LOL…. RIGHT YOU ONE OF THE FEW THAT ISNT HAPPY A FAMILY IS CUTTING OFF COMMUNICATION.

  31. IT KILLS ME HOW EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING KEYSHIA BROUGHT THIS ON HERSELF AND SHE EXPLOITED THEM LIKE THEY GOT ZERO OUTTA THIS. REMEMBER FAIR EXCHANGE IS NO ROBBERY. LET’S JUST LOOK AT THIS—-WOULD NEFFE HAVE A HOUSE, A BOOK DEAL, A SHOW HAD IT NOT BEEN FOR KEYSHIA??? WOULD FRANKIE FINALLY HAVE A PLACE OF HER OWN, BE ON A RADIO SHOW WEEKLY DRUNK OR HER OWN SHOW IF IT WASN’T FOR KEYSHIA??? WOULD ANYONE HAVE FOUND OR KNOWN WHO THE HELL ELITE WAS IF IT WASN’T FOR KEYSHIA??? WHAT ABOUT THE MONEY THEY EARN FROM APPEARANCES. DOES ANYONE BOOK& PAY TO SEE YO MAMA AND SISTERS??? LOOKS LIKE TO ME THEY ALL GAIN SOMETHING AND EVERYONE HAS A MEANS & CHANCE TO DO SOMETHING WITH THESE OPPORTUNITIES IF THEY’RE SMART ESP BETTER THEMSELVES WHICH KEYSHIA IS DOING. JENNY JONES!!!!

  32. IT SEEMS TO ME THAT THE ONLY ONE WHO IS REALLY OUT HERE CLOWNING AND ACTING CRAZY IN PUBLIC IS FRANKIE(AND THATS ON OCCASIONS) NEFFE HAS DONE ALOT BETTER FOR HERSELF WITH THE BOOK..AND ALL OF THAT OTHER SHIT! BUT LETS NOT FORGET GOD GAVE KEYSHIA THIS FAMILY…GOD GAVE KEYSHIA THIS VOICE…GOD GAVE KEYSHIA THAT SHOW…AND GOD PUT THEM ON THE SHOW FOR A REASON…SHE IS SUPPOSED TO BE WITH THEM….HER SHOW WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN AS INTERESTING HAD FRANKIE AND NEFFE NOT BEEN ON THAT SHOW!!! EVERRRRRYYYYYBODY WANTED TO SEE WHAT WAS HAPPENING WITH FRANKIE AFTER JAIL…AND WHAT WAS HAPPENING WITH NEFFE AFTER HER MARRIAGE FELL APART….WHO WAS REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING KEYSHIA RECORD IN THE BOOTH!?! WHO? THEY WERE PUT TOGETHER FOR A REASON THAT NONE OF US MAY EVER KNOW…BUT GOD PUT THEM TOGETHER! AND THATS THE WAY THEY SHOULD STAY…THEY HAVE ALL GAINED FROM EACH OTTHHHHHHER! GET IT? DAMN ITS NOT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND

  33. @ Jenny jones…… FYI keyshia didnt find elite her adopted mom contacted frankie and it went on from there. The family never wanted the fame, obviously if you have a famous sister your gonna be introduced to the lights, camera action. and it aint about gaining something, money cant buy you happiness. in the end Fuck the Fame, it should be about the one’s you love and have your back. and i dont understand how losing your family is a wayyyy to better yourself. Thats just my opinion, everyone else has a right to speak their own. but i dont understand how negative and cruel people are.

  34. AND WHY IS IT SO WRONG FOR KEYSHIA TO WANNA HAVE A PEACEFUL PREGNANCY AND NOT BRING AN UNHEALTHY, UNDERWEIGHT, STRESSED OUT BABY INTO THIS WORLD? REMEMBER SHE IS PREGNANT AND UNLIKE ALOT OF YOU IS A HAPPY OCCASSSION FOR HER SO WHY SHOULD SHE HAVE TO DEAL WITH HER BIOLOGICAL MAMA DRUNK & ON THE POLE AT MAGIC CITY AND HER SISTERS TRYING TO FIGHT HER MAMA’S 16 YR OLD THUG BOYFRIENDS AS WELL AS THEIR OWN MEN…….. AND DAMN CAN MRS. COLE GET ANY CREDIT OR LOVE FROM KEYSHIA W/O IT BEING A KNOCK ON FRANKIE OR HER BEING CALLED A GOLD DIGGER???? SHE RAISED HER. THAT’S HER DAUGHTER!!! SHE WAS AT HOME BEING KEYSHIA’S MOM WHEN FRANKIE WAS OUT BEING FRANKIE. KIDS LOVE WHO LOVES THEM NO MATTER WHAT THE BLOODLINE IS. SO THAT’S HER MOM AND I’M GLAD TO SEE KEYSHIA GIVES HER HER DUE RESPECT. YOU GUYS AREN’T KNOCKING ELITE FOR SHOWING HER OTHER FAMILY LOVE IN HER E-MAIL. DAMN!!!!! JENNY JONES!!!!

  35. ELITE SHOWS HER BIOLOGICAL MOTHER MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT!!!! AS WE CAN ALSO SEE FROM THIS LETTER! THEY DONT HAVE TO BE TOGETHER EVERYTIME FRANKIE WANTS TO SEE HER DAUGHTER EITHER….THERE ARE WAYS THAT THEY CAN AVOID THAT! WITHOUT HAVING TO STOP COMMUNICATING COMPLETELY WITH ONE OR THE OTHER PERSON

  36. @jennnifer(long time friend) U MUST REALIZE ALL THE TRIFLING PEOPLE U’VE KNOWN IN YOUR LIFE ARE SOMEONES FAMILY AND IF STRANGERS/PEOPLE DID THE MESSED UP STUFF TO US THAT FAMILY DOES WE’D CUT THEIR ASSES OFF!!!! FAMILY OR NOT SOONER OR LATER U GET TIRED OF BEING BURNED. AND WHO KNOWS MAYBE KEYSHIA TAKING A BREAK FROM THEM ESP WHILE SHE’S PREGNANT IS HER WAY OF STOPPING THE CRUELTY AND NEGATIVITY. WE ALL KNOW HOW THEY TALK TO EACH OTHER WHEN THEY ARGUE…… AND AS FAR AS ELITE. HOW WOULD THE ADOPTIVE MOM HAVE KNOWN HOW TO FIND FRANKIE IF IT WASN’T FOR KEYSHIA? AND IT DOESN’T LOOK LIKE ELITE HAS SHYED AWAY FROM THE LIGHTS, CAMERA & ACTION SEEMS LIKE THE OPPOSITE TO ME. THEY ALL ARE ENJOYING THE RIDE. JENNY JONES!!!

  37. People please stop getting on these sites and being oh so disrespectful like you really know whats going on. This is a family who has hit a rough patch in their lives that I do beleive that they will overcome. I beleive that because they are a praying family. The key word is family they will never change that no matter what. The love that they have for each other will overcome all of this . To the disrespectful commenters, although this is all over the internet that does not give you a right to be so disrespectful to this family no matter what your opinion is. Im sure your family goes though things but just not in front of a camera.. so place yourself in their shoes no matter who you are aginst or for.. My point in my comment was to just to take up for both sides and let them know that this is not it and God has made you guys family for a reason. This too shall pass. Just stay prayed up and continue to love each other no matter the outcome.. You guys will come back together and mend what was broken.

    Love Each Other, Believe in family!
    Brittany (Bleighan)

    Oneove, I Beleiv

  38. @ME—-U TAKE SOMEONE ELSES BABY LOVE IT, CHANGE DIAPERS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT , FEED AND CLOTH IT. TAKE CARE OF IT WHEN ITS SICK. ROCK IT TO SLEEP, HOLD IT WHEN ITS SCARED OR HURT. TAKE YOUR LOVE AND YOURSELF FROM YOUR BIOLOGICIAL TO GIVE TO THEM THEN LET SOMEONE HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY ‘YOU’RE NOT THEIR MOTHER’!!!! I THINK THAT’S A REAL LOW BLOW!! KEYSHIA MIGHT’VE BEEN DEAD IN A TRASH CAN OR RAPED LIKE POOR NEFFE FUCKING WITH FRANKIE AND HER CRACKED OUT WAYS. WHAT ALL THOSE ADOPTIVE PARENTS AREN’T PARENTS? NO MATTER WHAT KEYSHIA KNOWS BUT HAS TO BE MADE TO FEEL BAD B/C SHE GIVES MRS. COLE HER DUE. MAYBE B/C SHE’S PREGNANT SHE MAY REALIZE EVEN MORE WHAT A BLESSING MRS.COLE WAS TO HER. WHAT GOOD DOES IT DO TO GIVE SOMETHING LIFE IF YOU DO NOTHING TO SUBSTAIN IT???? JENNY JONES!!!!

  39. How many of these comments did Elite write? Lol! I bet if Keyshia got Elite’s bastard son a pair of True Religion jeans and paid Neffe’s mortgage for Christmas but still kept a distance, there would be no issues. They aren’t upset about Keyshia not talking to them. They’re upset b/c they wanted Keyshia to play santa to all those bastards! Now go ‘head Elite, you and Soullow can make a mixtape together.
    Ps-Elite’s baby daddy really is a weed/coke head/drug dealer, and yet she leaves her son in Oakland so she can “grind and get to the money”…yet she says she supported Keyshia’s decision to date Boobie. “Are you serious?” Elite don’t give a eff about Frankie. She just want the shine. That’s why she party’s with a crackhead instead of sending her to get help. Keyshia snatched those coattails so these rats couldn’t ride it, now they mad.

  40. @JENNY JONES IM NOT SAYING THAT SHE SHOULD DISOWN ANY PART OF HER FAMILY…THE BIOLOGICAL SIDE OR HER ADOPTIVE SIDE…ALL IM SAYING IS THAT SHE NEEDS TO FIND A HAPPY MEDIUM BETWEEN THE TWO…FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND ON THE SHOW…FRANKIE LEFT KEYSHIA WITH MRS.COLE…..SHE COULDVE THROWN HER IN A TRASH CAN OR ANYTHING…AT LEAST SHE DID THAT….KEYSHIA COLE WOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN BIRTHED HAD IT NOT BEEN FOR FRANKIE…AND FOR AT LEAST THAT SHE DESERVES RESPECT! THEY BOTH DESERVE RESPECT! FRANKIE NEEDS HELP AND MAYBE GOD MADE KEYSHIA WHO SHE WAS SO SHE COULD BE THE ONE TO GIVE IT TO HER!

  41. AND LETS NOT FORGET FRANKIE DID NOT PLAN TO BECOME A CRACKHEAD!!! ITS NOT LIKE SHE PURPOSELY DID THIS TO HER CHILDREN…TRY TO LOOK AT IT FROM HER POINT OF VIEW! SHE KNOWS THAT SHE WAS WRONG FOR THAT! THERE IS NO SENSE MAKING HER FEEL BAD ABOUT HERSELF….WHICH IS PROBABLY WHY SHE TURNED TO CRACK IN THE FIRST PLACE…BECAUSE SHE FELT BAD ABOUT HERSELF…ITS DONE NOW THEY NEED TO MOVE ON! AS A FAMILY

  42. @Sahm
    YOU ARE DEF. NOT A SUPPORTER OF KEYSHIA…SPEAKING OF HER FAMILY THAT WAY! SHE STILL LOVES THEM AND IM SURE IT IS NOT OKAY TO DISRESPECT THEM THE WAY U ARE…YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!

  43. *Im A CLOSE FRIEND OF THE FAMILY*
    @Jameile and the rest of you DUMB ILLITERATE ASS’s , Secretly yall are fans of ALL of them, Keyshia,Neffe,Frankie,ELite,and Probably even Dariel, Because of the simple fact you know EVERY FUCKING thing that goes on in the family! DAMN BITCH’s yall dont got a family or life of yall motherfucking OWN! I know GOT DAMN WELL NEITHER one of yall’s family’s are PERFECT! Even Leane Rimes said her family is DISFUNCTIONAL, but she Loves them Regardless.
    Elite is her SIster,she can say and do what the fuck she want to do and Say. she wasnt being RUDE or VINDICTIVE ,she was just simply saying how it is!
    and as far as Them being in the LIME LIGHT cuz of Keyshia, that goes for anybodys FAMILY
    Beyonce+Solange=Mom=Dad etc
    Ashanti+MOM=Sis
    Usher+Lil brother!
    Yal get the point, if u dont! the point is,when a Celebrity becomes popular THE WORLD wants to know who their Family is! and whats going on!
    Elite,Nor Neffe are Attention seekers, they are *REAL* something keyshia lost sight of , ima be real, ive been around all of them together,and KEYSHIA is GHETTOOOO behind closed doors and very hood, Keyshia Cusses,wanna fight them and everything,and she chose what was aired on her part, cuz she wanted to be PORTRAID a CERTAIN WAY! *GOOD FOR HER* But Neffe,Eliite and Frankie stayed true to them selves, ,U dont see Neffe ,and Elite gttn shit fixed,they still who they were when yall first saw them, but GROWING!
    BUT just like BEYONCE,Rihanna,etc ,KEYSHIA’s managment and TEAM had to change her,Starting with that GAP in her teeth! LMFAOOO she still was beautiful! they all are! POINT BLANK PERIOD, she isnt showing the world her true side,Ill agree she does have to do whats right for her IMAGE as fas as looks to cross over and keep her name in the industry ringing!
    but some shit has got to stop, they are ur family girl! KC get it together miss thing! at the END OF THE DAY, if something happened to your Niece’s and Nephews, or sis n bro,or ur MOM Frankie, youle have to live with that guilt for the rest of your life! and when u get to the GATES of HEAVEN, what do u think GOD gon say?

  44. @ SAHM
    Neffe Nor Elite EVERRRRRRRRRRRRRrr asked KEYSHIA FOR A MOTHERFUCKING THING! i know that for myself!
    they aint ask her to buy the kids shit for XMAS, Neffe and ELITE had their own money,and bought their kids gifts themselves, JUST LIKE i said ,SOMEONE ASKED
    “what KC get the kids for XMAS? >> Assuming, ok that’s their AUNT, i know she got them stuff!” and the response was simple “NOTHING” i mean that was da fuckn truth!
    get ur SHIT STRAIGHT before trying to come at somebody BITCH!!!

  45. I have never wrote on any blog, but this is interesting. I just wanna say, that the decision to allow some space between herself and her out of control family is totally up to Keyshia. As people grow, they often grow apart for different reason. KC family have been disrespectful at a time when Keyshia is maturing and desiring more stability in her life. I commend Keyshia for assisting all of her family members but she’s decided to focus on herself and her unborn child…..What is wrong with that? She doesn’t want the drama…What is wrong wit that? I too, believe that Keyshia statement didn’t need a response from Elite. She didn’t put Elite on Blast she spoke because Frankie was speaking on things that she has no clue about. I say respect Keyshia as she tends to herself and her baby. I’m sure in the end she will renew the relationships with all of them. Keyshia has always shown to have great Love for family and people in general. I hope the best for all of them but Keyshia deserves to be appreciated and respected for standing by all of them all along. Now she needs a break….she’s earned that right.

  46. i will say, if Keyshia had ANYTHING to say, she could kept Elite and Neffe name out of it! FRANKIE is really where she was talkn that bullshit too! THATS UR FUCKN MOTHER THOUGH MAN, u got let thesse LAMES and DUMB OPINIONATED ass holes in the world DEPICT your OWN Thoughts about your MOM KEYSHIA REALLY? wow, thats just *SAD*
    u have to remember these are FAT,LONELY,UGLY NO LIVES who have nothing better to do but sit in front of the computer and TV and FOLLOW OUR celebrity lives,and make ASSUMPTIONS of shit they see! and the PRODUCERS RE-ARRANGE! im speaking threw experience ,i been on 3 reality shows,and have PLENTY celebrity clients and friends! so i know the deal!
    yall dumb ass’s dont even realize YOU HATING LIKE U DO,is what KEEPS them in the limelight! so keep on watchn “@JAMEILE and @SAHM @Mone and @jenny-Jones yall are true fans of Frankie,neffe and Elite, YALL KNOW EVERYTHING AWWW
    ROUND OF APPLAUSE *CLAPS HANDS* lmfaoooo yall stupid ass’s

  47. Keisha was taken from her mother and given to a loving mother who raised her as her own in the right way. This is why Frankie does and always will have an issue with this woman. If Frankie was right in the head she would appreciate the fact that love is not a given, it has to be earned. Bringing a life into the world is not enough, never was and never will be. So what millions of dead beat dads do that everyday. What make her any different. Time and involvement put into raising a healthy child equals love. Yall can skip all that if Frankie would not have had her she would not be who she is today crap too. KC adopted Mother deserves the credit for giving her the mindset to become K Cole. I am so sick of people thinking adopted mothers do not have any hand in their adopted children fate. This is the main problem in black households in America. Everyone keeps the children they have instead of giving them up for adoption even when they know that their home environment is not the best place for the child to be. Some black mothers are selfish, and breed into dysfunctional relationships, and environments and when they do here come all the people in the community telling them how wrong they are to give up their children and why. Once they keep the child those people are gone and you have Child Protective Services stepping in and placing those children in foster care. Where are all those people who gave all those lame arguments when your lights are off, your food stamps are gone and you cannot provide for that child that they talked you into keeping? They are the ones calling CPS on you. lol We need to stop that outlook and see that adoption is the most loving thing you can do for your child in certain situations. Adopted parents are the greatest people in the world. They have to heal what everyone else has tore up from the floor up. Do your child a favor and give them up at birth if you know that you are not prepared to raise a child. This family is an example of what happens if you do not. Its many more out there like this. They are not the only ones. We as a black community need to stop being so against adoption. It is killing our children to be raised in the system when you could have put them in a loving home to begin with, but no you wanted that welfare check back them and income tax now because now you must work to recieve AFDC. Children are precious, and if you see your child as income, you need to be out of their life. Period. Income is not love. Just because you give birth does not make you a mother, no more as making a child makes any one a father. If Keisha is not careful she could put her child in what she came from. It is possible. Funny she never seen it like this until she became pregnant. It appears she hung onto them until she got pregnant. I say good looking out. Frankee is not grandmother material. If she wants to still act like she is on crack that is her business, but if I was having a child, I would require more as well. All the other things stated is inmaterial. They are the parents of their children, they do not need to get presents from Keisha for her to prove she loves them. She if she does not give them anything else has given them the world by bringing them into her world. She did not have to do that. She may should not have done it. Who am I to say, all is not lost as of yet. Their story will still unfold in the years to come. I do hope that people will stop saying that adopted parents don’t count. A real woman will place her newborn for adoption if she is not capable of providing and get her child out of destruction because of nothing else than pure unadulerated love. A birthmother places her child out of love for adoption. If your state takes your child away from you trust me it is not love. Children should come before money, fame, men, drugs and anything else. All those other things can and will leave you hanging, that child depends on mom, and mom must deliver. If you can’t chose adoption blace people. Stop lettting people tell you what they didn’t do and why. It’s not their child, it’s yours! Choose adoption. There are mothers who can never have children and are excellent mothers. Don’t hate adopted mothers no more than you would your biological mother that did all she could for you. They are one in the same if not more. They took and loved what you could not for whatever reason. Hats off to all mothers who adopted their child or children. Black people get over yourself, and quit using social services as a resource to raise your kids. We should be ashamed of ourselves. I am. I am working with foster children now and they are so precious, why did they have to go thru this? they should have been given up from the start. But no, the black community talks down to all mothers who ponder this as an option. If they would have given their child up from birth, we would not have the highest number of children with the state. More of our children would be better off earlier, and without all the emotional garbage that turns into mental issues and problems. What you have with Keisha family is just that. Her adopted mom did one hell of a job MAKING Keisha. Go head Mrs. Cole.

  48. When it’s all said and done they are still family and even though they allowed the fans into some of their personal lives we should hope that they patch things up it doesn’t matter what we say or think and please keep the kids out of it they have nothing to do with what’s going on regardless of what the adults around them do!

  49. Wow, look at this family drama being played over the internet. Everybody needs to lay off releasesing statments and just get together behind the scenes, instead blasting this constant drama over the internet and airways.Does anyone else find this troubling and hurtful?Someone with a level head needs to intervene on this family’s behalf, because this back and forth stuff will not work.Sad.

  50. Wow at Elite for this statements and some of these comments…blank stare…smdh. I feel where some of you’ll are coming from Jameile, Me, etc. I agree with Keyshia to step aside and focus on her and her new family….i mean its overwhelming, ow can one cope with family members like them…I mean I know there is a Frankie, Neffe, etc in everybody family, but you can help others who don want to be helped…Keyshia needs her peace. She needs serenity and she needs her sanity, I mean she is about to give birth…She has tried her best and sh has put everything in God’s hand. I don’t believe she hates her family or never wants to speak to them again, she just needs her space. At the end of the day, your family is your family. But all along she knew her adoptive family…Say prayers for they family, Time will heal the pains…sad

  51. YA’LL COMIN DOWN HARD ON KEYSHIA, BUT FRANKIE NEEDS TO TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY TOO, WHY DO SHE GET LET OFF THE HOOK CAUSE SHE HAD A DRUG PROBLEM, SHOW HER ASS SOME “HARD LOVE” THATS WHAT KEYSHIA IS DOING,,,,,FRANKIE DOESNT EVEN SEEM LIKE SHE CARES TO MUCH FOR ELITE ANYWAY SHE ONLY GETS EMOTIONAL OVER KEYSHIA AND NEFFE. AND IF YOU DONT THINK KEYSHIA DESERVES PEACE AND TRANQUILITY DURING HER PREGNACY YOUR DEAD WRONG IGNORANT AND ONE SIDED THINKERS.

  52. @ Jemeile
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    Honey, you have no facts what so ever, and you are being EXTREMELY one sided in this matter. You seem to have missed the entire point of what Elite said!
    #1. Elite is not mad at Keyshia, nor does she hate Keyshia! She was NOT being angry when she answered the simple question a tweeter asked her. “What did Keyshia get you”…”nothing”.

    WHY did the blogs portray that as such a big deal? Keyshia is in Cleveland. It could have been 1mil reasons WHY keyshia wasnt able to get her something. It could have been distance, she was busy. She would see her later. ANYTHING! Keyshia Cole is the one who decided to tell the world their was issues between her and her family. Im not saying shes wrong for that, but she made this public. She made them famous. PERIOD! She exploited her family to have a “real” image and sell more records. (which she did) so now they are famous (somewhat) and she has to deal with it!

    I believe Elite when they say they never asked her for nothing! Keyshia Cole said on the show that Neffe is AFFRAID to come to her when shes in need. “Going to Keyshia is like applying to welfare. I hate to ask her for stuff”-Neffe. Dont you remember Keyshia saying that too? Neffe bought HER OWN HOUSE! From her book and the show! (the last season) I live in Atlanta and I frequently seen Neffe working at the toll while keyshia was a star. (not saying thats wrong) but neffe WORKS! Keyshia does NOT take care of them, nor do they ask her too!
    ——————

    JEMIELE…. THIS IS NOT ABOUT SOMETHING RTHEY DID TO HER! THEY DID NOTHING TO HER! THIS IS NOT ABOUT THEM LEACHING! THIS IS NOT ABOUT HER “PEACE AND SERENNITY”. THIS IS SIMPLY ABOUT HER CAREER! IN ORDER FOR HER TO CROSS OVER SHE HAD TO CHANGE HER IMAGE, AND THAT MEANS SHE HAD TO SEPERATE HERSELF FROM THE SAME FAMILY SHE EXPLOITED TO HELP HER BECOME A STAR! SHE ISNT ASSOCIATING WITH HER FAMILY BECAUSE OF HER CAREER AND WHAT PEOPLE LIKE “YOU” THINK! THATS WHAT ELITE WANTS YOU TO UNDERSTAND! SHE KNOWS FRANKIE ISNT RIGHT! BUT SHES NOT DISOWNING HER MOTHER CAUSE OF YOU! (LIKE KEYSHIA DID)

    ———————————————————–

    You keep saying “when is enough, enough” WTF are you talking about? Enough of what? Them being who they are? Keyshia knew who they were when she exploited them to help her career. I cant say that enough. Keyshia is a complete different person behind closed doors. I understand her wanting to grow to reach the masses, however I KNOW why WE ALL fell in love with Keyshia in the first place. CAUSE SHE WAS REAL! Now shes not being real and thats why her album tanked!

    Look…Im not saying Keyshia Cole is wrong for wanting to advance her career. ect However, shes WRONG for throwing her family under the bus to do it. She can simply disconnect herself from them and not speak on them. However, when she says she needed to be away from them for her peace and serenity as if they are actually doing something to her, or taking money from her is ridiculous and its wrong for her to let the public think that the preserve her own image.

    Once again…This is NOT about her not getting along with them. It’s about her family hurting her image. PERIOD! Keyshia Cole is GHETTO! Loud! Curses! Gets KNOCKED UP just like Neffe! She is just like them! She just pretends to be a different way on camera.

    Stop saying Keyshia is “growing” and they arent. THATS FALSE! Shes growing ON CAMERA, but shes the same!

    I hope they get over this and work it out. Im okay with both girls…Keyshia and Elite ect I just think people need to know the truth and STOP BEING SO ONE SIDED! You had already made up your mind before you even read elites statement! You had already picked Keyshias side. And thats OKAY. You clearly have a bias and no interest in being open minded about it.
    KEYSHIA COLE IS NOT PERFECT! PERIOD! HER FAMILY ARE NOT MONSTERS, AND SHE IS NOT PERFECT! WHATEVER IS GOING ON BETWEEN THEM IT AINT JUST THEM. ITS KEYSHIA TOO! ITS BOTH SIDES WHO ARE WRONG AS IT USUALLY IS IN THE FAMILY DISPUTES! THEY NEED TO WORK IT OUT..

  53. This Jamleile person is really going in and has no facts what so ever! You people really believe “reality tv i real” NOT!

    JAMEILE…IM GOING TO SAY THIS TO YOU ONE MORE TIME!
    ——————-

    KEYSHIA COLE IS NO DIFFERENT THAN SHE WAS BEFORE! SHE IS THE SAME LOUD GHETTO FIGHTING GIRL WHO GETS KNOCKED UP JUST LIKE NEFFE! PERIOD!

    PEOPLE KEEP SAYING THEY WONT GROW, THEY WONT CHANGE.SHE WANTS PEACE. THATS FALSE! KEYSHIA COLE IS JUST LIKE HER FAMILY! PERIOD!

    SO WHY IS SHE RELEASING A STATEMENT DISOWNING THEM? IT’S SIMPLE… YOU AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU! KEYSHIA COLE WANTS TO CROSS OVER TO ANOTHER MARKET! NOW THAT SHE HAS EXPLOITED HER GHETTO FAMILY ENOUGH TO GET A STREET FAN BASE SHES “ON TO THE NEXT ONE”…THAT MEANS…DISOWING HER OWN FLESH AND BLOOD TO BECOME A BIGGER STAR AND MAKE MORE MONEY. (AFTER SHE ALREADY MADE TONS OF MONEY EXPLOITING THEM AND THEY DIDNT MAKE ANY AND STILL WORK AT THE HIGH WAY TOLL IN ATLANTA!)

    DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE NOW? THIS IS NOT ABOUT THEM DOING SOMETHING TO HER. ESPECIALLY ELITE AND NEFFE. THEY HAVE DONE NOTHING TO KEYSHIA. I CAN UNDERSTAND KEYSHIA BEING ASHAMED OF FRANKIE, BUT ELITE IS COOL. NEFFE IS EVEN COOL. JUST GHETTO. FRANKIE IS THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM.

    WHEN IS ENOUGH, ENOUGH…I DONT KNOW! BUT KEYSHIA ISNT MAD AT THEM BECAUSE SHE IS “HURT” BY THE WAY THEY LIVE THEIR LIFE. KEYSHIA IS MAD AT THEM BECAUSE IF SHAME AND FAME! PERIOD! THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE, HONEY! IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THEN WE DONT NEED TO GO ANY FURTHER. YOU KEEP BEING ONE SIDED. YOU WONT MAKE IT FAR.

  54. Im not being one sided…at all…I dont know NONE of them personally. I can only go off what KEYSHIA says. Not to mention the simple fact that, it dont take a rocket scientist to realize whats happening here! Even Ray Charles can see this shit ( i know that was a lame joke, lol..but u get my drift)

    Keyshia may very well be the same ole hood chick from Oakland….fine, I’ll give you that. HOWEVER, just cuz u the same ole hood chick from Oakland doesnt mean you dont want happiness. You dont want peace. You dont want to raise your unborn child in the surroudings u were raised in. Would I want my child to be around Frankie? No….im sorry. even if it was my mother. Would I want my child to be assoiciated with the mess that is the “Frankie and Neffie show”? Hell no. I mean come on now…They cant evern respect they sister, who they looovvveee soooo much, enough to at least act accordingly in public and on television.

    Yall keep hollering, Keyshia exploited them…well, with out Keyshia, there would be no Frankie and Neffie show, there would be no, My Happiness Is My Sanity, there would be no Freddyo Exclusives, there would be no club appearances, there would be no Elite tryin to record an album,…Keyshia put them on and what did it do, backfire like a motherfucker! And again, I dont blame her from distancing herself from that trainwreck. And I PROMISE u it aint a diss to Neffie, Frankie or Elite. Im sure they are all beautiful people. But HOW DARE they try and knock Keyshia from cuttin off communication.

    And ELite…..ELite of ALL PEOPLE, should really shut the hell up. Keyshia barely even mentioned you in the statement. Again, if you have done nothing wrong, why r u releasing a statement? Seriously. Mind you ELITE, it was becuz of you people blasted and condemned Keyshia for not buying her neices and nephews Christmas gifts. It was becuz of YOU ELITE that mediatakeout, Bossip and other blogs, BLASTED Keyshia for not buying Xmas gifts…WHY? All becuz you wanted to keep it real with a fan who asked a simple question………GIRL SIT DOWN! Seriously. Keyshia aint dumb and real recgonize real.

  55. @JAMEILE…

    Trust me, you dont know what your talking about! Family WILL fuck you faster. However, Keyshia Coles family has NOT fucked her! If anything they have HELPED HER CAREER! You think Keyshia Cole would be as famous as she is, if she had not exploited her family on that show? NO! Her sales TRIPPLED after the success of that show! They have HELPED her! Not taken from her!

    Now…she wants to cross over to a greater audience and shes wants to disown them and make it seem like they are sooooooo crazy and she is sooooooo different now. PLEASE! Keyshia Cole is JUST LIKE NEFFE IN REAL LIFE! Keyshia Cole is unwed and knocked up! Made poor decisions about relationships!

    (fun fact) SHE LEFT HER FOSTER MOMS HOME TO GO STAY WITH SOME GUY WHO CONSTANTLY CHEATED ON HER WITH A GIRL WHO LIVED DOWN THE STREET! SHE STAYED WITH HIM KNOWING HE WAS SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER GIRL RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER! (SEE I CHANGED MY MIND VIDEO FOR VISUAL) IT WASNT UNTIL HER ACTUALLY TOSSED HER OUT ON THE STREET THAT SHE DROVE TO LA AND MADE SOMETHING OF HER LIFE! (KNEW THE RIGHT PERSON AT THE RIGHT TIME!)

    She is NO DIFFERENT than Neffe! Just not as fertile! Stop trying to make it seem like Keyshia has it all together! top believeing her image she creates to sale u product! Stop believing her fake smile and bullshit statements that she didnt even write! HER PR WROTE IT!

    AND MOST OF ALL…BE MORE OPEN MINDED! STOP BEING ONE SIDED! BE ABLE TO SEE THINGS FROM BOTH SIDES! BEING ONE SIDED IS A TRAIT I CANT STAND IN A PERSON. JUST LIKE WITH THE CHRIS BROWN RIHANNA THING..PEOPLE ARE SO ONE SIDED AND DONT BELIEVE IN FORGIVENESS AS IF THEY ARE PERFECT. STOP BELIEVEING EVERYTHING YOU SEE AND HEAR! EVERYTHING IS NOT WHAT IT SEEMS! BEING ONE SIDED WILL HURT YOU IN LIFE. AS A STUDIER OF PSYCH, I HAVE REALIZED THAT PEOPLE ARE VERY COMPLEX, YET VERY SIMPLE AT THE SAME TIME. PEOPLE HAVE NO INSIGHT WHAT SO EVER, BUT ALWAYS HAVE AN OPINION.

    IF YOU DONT HAVE THE ABILITY TO READ THINGS FROM MORE THAN ONE ANGLE, DONT SPEAK AND PLEASE DONT OFFER ADVICE. YOUR MAKING A FOOL OF YOURSELF TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE SENSE!

  56. LMFAOOOOOO…

    @

    ” Im not being one sided…at all…I dont know NONE of them personally. I can only go off what KEYSHIA says.?” – jamelie

    THAT STATEMENT ALONE SHOWS YOUR BEING ONE SIDED! WHY ARE YOU ONLY GOING OFF WHAT KEYSHIA SAYS? WHY WONT YOU HEAR ELITE OUT? WHY CANT YOU SEE IT FROM HER SIDE? WHY DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT SHE DID NOT ASK TO BE DUG UP AND PUT ON TV? WHY CANT YOU UNDERSTAND THAT SHE HAS NEVER DISRESPECTED KEYSHIA AND SAID SHE LOVES HER? WHY CANT YOU SEE THAT SHE JUST WANTS THEM ALL TO GET ALONG? WHY CANT YOU SEE THE ONLY PERSON ACTING CRAZY IS FRANKIE! WHAT HAS ELITE DONE TO KEYSHIA? YOU DONT KNOW! NO ONE KNOWS! ALL YOU KNOW IS WHAT YOU HEARD! LIKE I SAID! STOP LISTENING TO EVERYTHING YOU SEE AND HEAR! EVERYTHING IS NOT ALWAYS WHAT IT SEEMS! AND IF YOU CAN ONLY LISTEN TO ONE SIDE OF IT, THEN YOU ARENT SEEING, OR HEARING EVERYTHING! YOU ARE HEARING WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR!

    STOP IT…

  57. Lastly, yall better than me…Aint no way in HELL, if my sister was worth millions of dollars and was in a position to help me help myself, would I be on television, in magazines, on blogs embarrassing her…..Im just keepin it all the way FUNKY. I would ALWAYS make sure myself and my Sister KEYSHIA was showcased in the best light possible…BABY you couldnt pay Gayle King to get on reality tv and embarrass Oprah……

    The bottom line is…Elite, NEffie, Frankie…if your reading this, you guys are an embarrassment. While you think America is embracing you, they are laughing at you. Not to mention shaking their heads. Its really sad. Seriously. And im not saying this to be mean…as someone who comes from a broken black home. A mother who was addicted to drugs…Yall not makin ur situation no better. And yall really care bout Frankie so much, help your mother. Help her. Its soo obvious she is battling so many demons inside her. Neffie, you have 4 or 5 kids, what kind of example are u setting for them? Sollow…no job…screaming and shouting on television…I feel like Neffie is like on of the coolest “friends in my head” and I want so much more for her. Ive seen her grow from that very first season of Keyshia Cole up untill now. Dont backtrack, Neffie….Elite, my cousin and I thought u were the sane one, lol. The voice of reason. Im soo let down by your desire for fame and “keepin it real” . You really come across as an opportunist. The best thing you can do for yourself and Keyshia, the sister u loovvee so much, is to just be quiet. All yall need to just pray for yourselves and each other. Be happy that ur sister wants to focus on her life. She cant carry yall forever….God bless all of yall and I truly hope one day ir able to reunite.

    Untill then, Keysh, Neffie said it best, My Happiness iS My Sanity….Do you girl and dont like back. At the end of the day, if you truly did ur best to help then, move on with your life.

  58. LOL…that did come across as one sided…..but my whole point is, I dont know the situation. So my opinion is based off what ELite and KEyshia says….I just think its TERRIBLE Elite through KC under the bus like that about them damn Xmas presents. I think its very TACKY for Elite to release a statement. I think the best thinkg Elite needs to do is shut up. America is lookin at her like, why is she releasing a statement. The mere fact that Elite feels she needs to make a statement is beyond me.

  59. @ “Yall keep hollering, Keyshia exploited them…well, with out Keyshia, there would be no Frankie and Neffie show, there would be no, My Happiness Is My Sanity, there would be no Freddyo Exclusives, there would be no club appearances, there would be no Elite tryin to record an album,…Keyshia put them on and what did it do, backfire like a motherfucker! ”
    ———-
    Have you ever heard them talk bad about Keyshia Cole? I have never heard Neffe, Frankie OR Elite talk bad about her. So what are you talking about? We all Know Keyshia is the reason they were on the show. WE KNOW THAT! They known it! They did it FOR KEYSHIA! This was NOT ABOUT THEM! They have always said they APPRECIATE WHAT KEYSHIA DID! Look at the drunk frankie interview on the red carpet. She APPRECIATES what Keyshia did. They have ALWAYS SAID THAT! So how is that statement above relevant?
    You say Keyshia putting them on TV backfired….You clearly dont understand that KEYSHIA WOULD NOT BE THE PLATNIUM SUPER STAR SHE IS HAD SHE NOT DONE THAT SHOW AND FRANKIE AND NEFFE NOT BEEN ON IT! DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YET, OR ARE YOU STILL BEING ONE SIDED?
    KEYSHIA COLE PUTTING THEM OUT BACKFIRED? WELL…DID YOU CALL IT A FORWARD FIRE WHEN SHE PUT THEM ON THE SHOW AND HER SALES TRIPLED? LOL ONCE AGAIN, STOP BEING ONE SIDED! FRANKIE AND NEFFE HAVE THEIR SHOW BECUASE OF KEYSHIA. HOWEVER, KEYSHIA COLE BECAME A BIG SUCCESS LARGELY DUE TO HER REALITY SHOW AND EXPLOITING THE FAMILY SHE NOW WANTS TO DISOWN BECAUSE SHE WANTS EVEN MORE SUCCESS AND MONEY!

    Its nothing wrong with Keyshia wanting to distance herself from drama and change her image. My point is…she doesnt have to bash her family, and or throw her family under the bus to do it. And im not saying she did, but her FANS seem to be doing it! WITH NO FACTS AT ALL!

  60. But how did she bash her family though? How did Keyshia bash them? Frankie is on V103 tellin entire Atlanta that KC is married. Elite on Twitter tellin people Keyshia aint bought her neices and nephews shit for Xmas…Again, where is Keyshia at fault? She reserves the right to protect her brand by speaking up.

  61. @ Jamelie…

    How is it TACKY for Elite to release a statement saying she LOVES her sister and wants them to be a family? There you go again being one sided! STOP IT! What is tacky about Elite releasing a statement? Why is elite wrong for saying she loves her family and wants them to work it out!

    Why is it okay for Keyshia Cole to release a statement basically saying that she is a stable person and her family is now beneath her and she wants nothing to do with them, but its wrong for elite to say she loves her family?

    STOP BEING ONE SIDED! ELITE HAS A RIGHT TO RESPOND TO SOMETHING THAT PERTAINS TO HER…PERIOD!

    Elite did NOT throw Keyshia under the bus. THE BLOGS DID! Again, stop believeing everything you see and hear. Stop taking things at face value! All elite did was answer a question. Someone asked her what Keyshia gave her as if it were some big thing anf elite simply said “nothing”. How is that wrong and throwing her under the bus? Its the truth!

    I will tell you why its wrong. BECAUSE YALL FEEL LIKE ITS WRONG! YALL IMMEDIATELY THOUGHT IT WAS WRONG THAT KEYSHIA DID NOTHING FOR HER FAMILY FOR CHRISTMAS! ELITE DIDNT CALL HER WRONG! ELITE DIDNT SAY SHE WAS HURT OR UPSET! YALL CALLED KEYSHIA WRONG! THE BLOGS/BLOGGERS CALLED KEYSHIA WRONG! AND LIKE I SAID…IGNORANT PEOPLE TOOK WHAT THEY READ ON THE BLOGS AND RAN WITH IT!

    STOP BEING ONE SIDED, AND STOP ACCEPTING EVERYTHING YOU SEE ON THESE BLOGS!

  62. I believe in never giving up on anyone that has the same blood running through their veins as you. Just like someone said if she was broke and did not have what she has she wouldn be cuttin no communication off, why now? She wrote that statement making them look like they were so less than her when bitch you just light skinned. Lets see how this nigga do her and I bet when he start fuccing up she aint gon be cuttin no communication off.

  63. @ JAMEILE…KEYSHIA COULD HAVE SIMPLY SAID….NO I AM NOT MARRIED, BUT I PLAN ON GETTING MARRIED. I HEARD FRANKIES INTERVEW. SHE DIDNT SAY KEYSHIA WAS MARRIED, SHE SAID SHE IS GETTING MARRIED. SHE DIDNT CONFIRM A TIME OR A PLACE A WEDDING HAPPENED. ALL KEYSHIA HAD TO SAY IS NO IM NOT MARRIED, BUT IM GETTING MARRIED. WHICH SHE DID AND THATS COOL. IM NOT MAD AT KEYSHIA FOR THAT.

    ITS KEYSHIAS FANS WHO ARE ACTING DUMB AND TALKING LIKE THEY KNOW WHATS GOING ON.

    WE ALL KNOW FRANKIE IS A DRUNK AND WE CANT PAY MUCH ATTENTION TO HER. DONT WE? SO WHO IS LISTENING TO FRANKIE? IM NOT…WHY DOESNT KEYSHIA JUST CALL FRANKIE AND ADVISE HER NOT TO DISCUSS HER IN INTERVIEWS? FRANKIE WOULD HAVE SAID NO COMMENT AFTER THAT! NO…KEYSHIA DISOWNED HER, SO THEY DONT KNOW HOW TO DIRECT A QUESTION ABOUT HER. SHE SHOULD HAVE INFORMED THEM NOT TO SPEAK ON HER, OR WHATS GOING ON. THATS THE FAULT OF KEYSHIAS TEAM FOR NOT BEING ON TOP OF THAT. BEYONCES TEAM WOULD NEVER LET THAT HAPPEN. KEYSHIAS TEAM NEEDS TO DO A BETTER JOB. EVEN IF THEY ARENT TALKING, THEY SHOULD HAVE A BASIC UNDERSTANDING. THEY CLEARLY DONT. KEYSHIA DOESNT WANT TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THEY ARE FAMOUS AND PEOPLE WANT TO KNOW WHATS UP WITH THEM. SHE CANT ACCEPT THE FACT THAT SHES NOT THE ONLY SEMI STAR IN HER FAMILY. SHE PUT THE LIGHT ON THEM, NOW SHE HAS TO HANDLE IT PROPERLY. AGAIN, SHE KNEW HOW HER FAMILY WAS WHEN SHE EXPLOITED THEM! SHE KNOWS HOW FRANKIE DRUNK AZZ IS. WE ALL DO! PUT A MUZZLE ON HER WHEN IT COMES TO ANYTHING ABOUT KEYSHIA COLE. FRANKY WOULD OBEY THAT. SHE WOULD SAY…”I CANT TALK ABOUT KEYSHIA RIGHT NOW” FRANKIE WOULD DO THAT!

    And…to you saying them doing things to affect her brand…once again…BEING ONE SIDED! Do you not understand that no matter how much keyshia cole PRETENDS to change in front of the cameras that THEY ARE APART OF HER BRAND, THEN, NOW AND FOREVER! (SHE MADE IT THAT WAY) SHE HAS TO FIND A BETTER WAY TO HANDLE IT. PERIOD!

  64. It was tacky becuz once again, her family dragging her through some shit. Elite couldve reached out personally to Keyshia or Manny..Im sure she has some way of gettin in contact with Keyshia. I dont feel sorry for them, I just dont. As much as Id like to, I just dont. Keyshia released a statement becuz she is a public figure. Her family has been speakin out against her. She owed it to her fans. Again, who is Elite? You smokin the good shit if you think it was no shade on Elite’s part by saying KC didnt get them no Xmas gifts. LMAO

    We just gonna have to agree to disagree. You made some good points, but I still stick by my word. There is nothing wrong from cutting off communication with ANYBODY, family included, if they use you, dont support ur growth, or compromise YOUR happiness.

  65. Oh and Icey, it didnt take Keyshia releasing a statement makin them look no way. They did it to themselves…Catch a re run of Frankie and Neffie show…

  66. JAMEILE…

    I am so tired of typing this over and over, but you leave men no choice…

    STOP BEING ONE SIDED!

    Keyshia Cole is NOT the only public figure in her family! They ALL ARE! They are all famous to some degree! They ALL have management and an image! (rathe ryou like their images, or the fact they are famous, or not) THEY ARE!

    When has Frankie EVER talked bad about Keyshia Cole in public? WHY di you keep saying her family spoke against her? They NEVER spoke against her! What has neffe said? NOTHING! Neffe hasnt said Keyshias name in two years! NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING! The BLOGS spoke AGAINST keyshia! UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE!

    When has Frankie said something bad about keyshia?
    When has Neffe said something bad about Keyshia?
    When did elite say something bad about Keyshia?

    Please come back when you can answer that question. okay? cause you cant help only viewing this from one side. I can see that. you cant mak a blind person see!

    Keyshia Cole is a star with an image. SO IS FRANKIE AND NEFFE! Even if you think they are ghetto trash, and known for being that…THEY ARE STILL STARS IN THEIR OWN RIGHT! Keyshia made it that way! They can go to a radio show and do an interview! They get payed to appear at clubs in atlanta JUST LIEK KEYSHIA DOES! If you cant understand that, then your still only seeing one side!

    FOR THE LAST TIME…

    THEY HAVE NEVER SPOKEN AGAINST THEM. HOWEVER, KEYSHIA COLE RELEASED A STATEMENT AGAINST THEM SAYING SHE DOESNT ASSOCIATE WITH THEM ANYMORE.

    And im not saying shes wrong for wanting to be apart from them. Its HER LIFE. However, her fans need to stop being delusional. People like YOU who keep coming on blogs and saying crazy stuff is whats fueling them to release statements and defend thereself. (elite) DO YOU SEE THAT?

    Or are you still being BLIND and one sided? AGAIN!

  67. JAMEILE

    @ THIS STATEMENT…

    “There is nothing wrong from cutting off communication with ANYBODY, family included, if they use you, dont support ur growth, or compromise YOUR happiness”
    —————

    I AGREE 100%…HOWEVER, WHAT YOU AND THE REST OF THE BLIND SIMPLE MINDED, ONE SIDED PUBLIC HAVE TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT NONE OF THE THINGS YOU LISTED ARE THE REASON SHE SEPERATED FROM THEM!

    FAME…MONEY…AND JEALOUSY IS!

    NOW…IS THAT A REASON TO SEPERATE FROM YOUR FAMILY? NO!
    STOP IT!

  68. ME
    January 12, 2010 at 12:43 am

    you can’t tell me shit so_cocky on twitter is elite baby daddy and that drug head talks about his drug use everyday and tweet pics.that’s who she left her son with so yes i hope dfax see’s it and take her son damn careless ass young kids

  69. ya’ll know in the end a dollar will tear a family apart..i think once they wanted to give frankie and neefe their own show keyshia got mad because she would’nt make any money off it…..but elite tell the truth keyshia kick neefe out that house and gave it to you???

  70. I am sorry I am on Elite’s side. Keyshia is the one that exposed her family to world by having them on her reality show, so if she created a monster, its all her fault. She knows her family is trifling, but what she probably did not expect was her family to get more attention than her. To be honest the only reason I watched her show was because of Frankie. Despite of her mother being a crack head, she could not be a good mother because of her habit. Keyshia should not hold this over her head, that is still her mother. What happens if her baby’s father decides to jump ship?? She is going to wish like hell she still had her family by her side. She doesn’t have to agree with what her family is doing or support them, but she should have never made a statement to the public about moving on with her life without them. That was a very selfish thing to do.

  71. @JAMILLE I AM A BIG FAN OF KEYSHIA I HAVE FOLLOWED AND SUPPOSED HER CAREER SINCE THE BEGINNING I THINK WHAT SHE HAS CHOOSEN TO DO ABOUT HER FAMILY IS WRONG .SHE NEEDS GOD TO LEAD HER IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION AND HE WOULD NOT LIKE WHAT SHE HAS CHOOSEN. IN THE BIBLE IT STATES A FAMILY THAT STAYS TOGETHER PRAYS THEY NEED TO WORK THIS OUT .I KNOW SHE IS EXPECTING AND SHE DON’T NEED STRESS BUT NOT SPEAKING TO SOMEONE WHO GAVE YOU LIFE I DON’T CARE WHAT FRANKIE HAS DONE SHE GAVE YOU WHAT NO ONE OTHER THAN GOD CAN GIVE YOU AND THAT’S LIFE .AND I THINK FRANKIE CAME A LONG WAY AND YOUR FAMILY AIN’T NO DIFFERENT FROM THE AVERGAE BLACK FAMILY ALL OF US HAVE A FRANKIE AND I LOVE MY AUNT TO DEAD WHO REMINDS ME OF HER .I KNOW KEYSHIA IS IN THE PUBLIC EYE BUT YOU HAVE TO LET THE MEDIA THINK WHAT EVER THEY WANT YOU CAN’T LIVE FOR THEM AND DISSING YOUR FAMILY YOU WILL LOSS A LOT OF THEM . AND FROM EXPERIENCE YOU DON’T WANT TO NOT BE SPEAKING TO A FAMILY AND THEY DIE TAKE IT FROM ME ITS THE HARDEST THING TO GET OVER .KEYSHIA GIVE IT TO GOD AND PRAY HE WILL WORK IT OUT DON’T STOP SPEAKING TO THEM EXSPECIALLY NOT THOSE KIDS IT SEEM LIKE THEY LOVE YOU SO MUCH.AND JAMILLE YOU SHOULD WATCH WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT FRANKIE ,NEFFE ,AND ELITE CAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY THAT’S HER FAMILY .@ELITE YOU DID THE RIGHT THING TO RELEASE A STATEMENT IF KEYSHIA DIDNT WANT THAT SHE SHOULD HAVE NOT RELEASE A STATEMENT.I HOPE YALL CAN WORK THIS OUT GOD IS NOT PLEASED THAT ‘S NOT GODLY . LOOK AT ALL THE THINGS WE DO WRONG TO GOD (SIN OVER AND OVER AGAIN )AND HE HURTS WHEN WE DO WRONG BUT HE FORGIVE US SO WHAT IF GOD DIDN’T FORGIVE US????????????????

  72. ALL YA’LL SHUT THE HELL UP!!!! NEITHER ME NOR MY FAMILY MEMBERS HAVE MONEY SOME SOME OF THEM ARE CRAZY AS HELL AND I DONT WANT TO BE AROUND THEM ITS MY PERROGATIVE!!!!!!!!! FUCK OFF!!!!!!!!!!

  73. @ THAT BITCH:::: ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS CHURCH OUT YOUR STATEMENT IS THE ONLY ONE THAT SUMS IT UP!!!!!!…….@ THAT BITCH PREACH!!!!…AND CHURCH IS OUT!!!!!!!!

  74. THIS IS A TOUCHY SITUATION…..I RMBR BEING MOTIVATED IN COLLEGE B/C I KNEW THT I WAS GONNA MAKE MAD $$$$ 2 SUPPORT MY MOM, DAD AND LIL SISTER……WELL IT NVR HPPND BUT I DONT THNK THAT I COULD CUT MY FAMILY OFF COMPLETLY….NOW MY IN-LAWS YES AND MAYBE FRANKIE AND THEM 2…..U GOTTA LOOK @ IT FROM KEYSHIA’S PERSPECTIVE

  75. Come on I like keyshia but she got a little money and changed! WE ALL KNOW THAT KEYSHIA SHOW FOCUSING ON HER FAMILY MADE HER MORE POPULAR IT WASN’T NOTHING WRONG WITH THE WAY THEY WERE ACTING THEN. YES CHANGE IS GOOD BUT KEYSHIA GOT SUCCESS AND A MAN AND FLIPPED. YALL GOING IN ON ELITE BUT WHEN PEOPLE BLOWING UP HER TWITTER WHY NOT SAY WHAT YOU GOT TO SAY.

  76. This is pure comedy in the comment section, its clear that a majority of y’all siding w/ Elite and the fam are probably just that Elite and friends/associates of her and Neffe.
    I have never seen any of you on the comments, NOW u magically appear, how convenient…lol
    I guess I might as well speak directly to you guys … KEYSHIA doesn’t owe any of her family members a thing, if you supported yourself before Keyshia then keep doing it…no need to blast her or put all of your fams business out on twitter. You could have easily not responded to the person who asked. The Bible says there will be some ppl u will have to let go when your growing and their hindering you from that && that just happens to be yall. Keyshia isn’t obligated to giving her sisters children gifts, buy your own kids gifts. Its clear you are still riding Keyshia’s coat tail from your bio on twitter alone, get your own identity …. I have no sympathy for you at all! YOU NEED MORE PPL so instead of spending all of your time on the internet why don’t you work on getting Frankie into a real drug facility, there are PLENTY Around Atlanta. If you really care about your mom and sister none of you would be on tv being an embarrassing her. Give it up, get a real job!
    ** No need to respond to me on her, bcuz I won’t come back to look at this foolishness!
    ” You cannot change the ppl around you, but you can change the ppl you are around! Everyone does not deserve your company!”

  77. OMG I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY I DO AGREE WHAT THAT ONE GIRL IS BEING ONESIDED SHE JUST IS TRULY A KC FAN I THINK EVERYONE MADE GOOD POINTS AND THE GIRL WHO SAID SHE KNOW THEM PERSONALLY I WILL HAVE TO AGREE WITH HER 100 PERCENT THAT KC IS NOT GIVING US ALL THE TRUTH IN THIS STORY WHICH SHE DONT HAVE 2 I TRULY BELIEVE ELITE SHE HAS NOTHING TO GAIN OR LOSE FROM THIS LETTER KC OPEN THE DOOR AND ELITE ALSO DID 2 I JUST DONT THINK ELITE THOUGH HER ANSWER ON TWITTER WOULD CAUSE SO MUCH DRAMA SHE DONT SEEM LIKE THE DRAMA TYPE AS OR NEFFE I KNOW SHE WORKS I VISIT ATLANTA OFTEN AND SHE WAS STILL AT HER POST I DONT THINK PEOPLE ARE UNDERSTANDING NO ONE WAS SAYING THAT EITHER GIRL WHAT KC TO BY ALL THERE CHRISTMAS BUT A GIFT FROM THERE AUNTIE I CANT GET PAST HER NOT DOING THAT BUYING A GIFT IS NOT SUPPORTING THERE KIDS ITS A TOKEN FROM THE HEART 2 SHOW A PERSON U LOVE THEM SHE HAD NO RIGHT 2 SEND GIFT 2 OTHER PEOPLE KIDS AND LOOK OVER THEM AT ALL I JUST WILL NEVER AGREE WITH THAT I KC HERSELF SAID OUT HERE ON MOUTH THAT SHE LOVED JAYLEN HE WAS THE NEW MAN IN HER LIFE THAT SHE LOVED THIS BABY HE DIDNT NEED HIS FATHER HE HAD HER IF SHE DIDNT GET ANYBODY ELSE A GIFT SHE SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN HIM SOMETHING I PRETTY MUCH KNEW AFTER SHE SAID THAT AND DID SOMETHING DIFFERNT NOW LET ME KNOW SHE WAS PUTTING ON FOR HER SHOW
    SORRY I FEEL THAT WAY BUT I DO BUT AS FOR FRANKIE ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN ON DRUGS AND ALCHOL ALL THIS YEARS CANT GET CLEAN IN A 30MIN SHOW WITH 10 EPSOIDES AND A PERSON WHO TRULY WANTED THEIR MOTHER CLEAN WOULD HAVE NOT PUT HER ON TV LIKE THAT I LOVE ME SOME FRANKIE SHE A LOUD FUN AND WILD PERSON BUT SHE IS NOT THROUGH FIGHTING HER DEMONS AND SHE NEED ALL OF U I SUGGEST AFTER U HAVE YOUR BABY REACH OUT TO UR MOTHER WITH LOVE AND HELP HER BECAUSE TRUST ME KC YOU CUTTING HER OUT YOUR LIFE NOW IS GOING TO PUSH HER RIGHT BACK 2 THE DRAWING BOARD I DO BELIEVE SHE WAS TRYING TO CHANGE 4 U NOT THE OTHER KIDS WHICH IS SAD 2 SAY BUT ITS TRUE BECAUSE SHE WAS TIED OF MS COLE NOT MR COLE LOOKING DOWN ON HER I LIKE MS COLE BUT BABY GIRL I KNOW U DIDNT WANT FRANKIE AROUND U MAY HAVE U DID BUT THE WAY U LOOKED AT HER SAID SO MUCH DIFFERENT AND I ALSO THINK FRANKIE PAIN CAME FROM NOT MS COLE RAISING KC BUT SHE TOOK HER NAME SHE GAVE HER AND GIVE KC HERS IT MAY SOUND OFF BUT IT WAS A PROBLEM U COULD FEEL THE PAIN IN SEASON 1 I JUST HOPE THAT ALL OF THE FAMILY CAN GET SOME REAL HELP WITH OUT CAMERA PUBLIST AND MANGERS LIKE I SAID ALONE NO HELP FROM OUTSIDERS

  78. FreddyO, first time using, but man I see why you’re so popular. Because people can come on and be stupid and ignorant and get energy from others alike. Don’t get me wrong some folks have valid good points. But most are just so bored with their own lives that they have to speak negative over others. Sorry about that folks. You’ll get your own life someday.

    Anyways, you all have to understand that this is all publicity. Keyshia was working(well rather her publicist) was working. Keyshia didn’t write that. But you all are on it like white on rice. Lol. (Silly Rabbits). Elite responded very tackfully, so that her followers/fans/audience(whatever you want to call them) would receive her side. As she was correct to do so.

    I kept reading “keyshia did this for them, Keyshia did that… They shld appreciate”

    Excuse my urban but “Negros, every single one of them appreciates Keyshia for allowing GOD to use her”. Because that’s who blessed them. Not Keyshia alone. God didn’t need to use Keyshia to blessed their family, but he did. Frankie doesn’t say anything negative about her daughter. She refuses too, even when people like I will. She rebukes it. Elite loves her sister and so does Neffe. As Keyshia loves them the same. That’s the end of the story folks. Simple! You bloggers, are just creating a story to be entertained by. But maybe you shld call your (brother, sister, mother, etc) and tell them how much you love them and how lucky you are that your little spats are not in the media for ignorant mofos, to dawg you because your family is not perfect. Now you may say that they put thmselves in front of the media. But guys realize that its tv. It was fake 20+ yrs ago. And its fake now. Its one thng to dawg a character but another to dawg someones actual situation. The Devil has just made an excuse for us to kill others with our words. Don’t fall for it people.

    I didn’t write this to dawg anyone. Just in hopes that you all pull it together and maybe try to shed some positivity to them, instead of rediculing them like Jesus was. We are past those days. Now in 2010.

    Thanks,
    Esquire

  79. FreddyO, first time using, but man I see why you’re so popular. Because people can come on and be stupid and ignorant and get energy from others alike. Don’t get me wrong some folks have valid good points. But most are just so bored with their own lives that they have to speak negative over others. Sorry about that folks. You’ll get your own life someday.

    Anyways, you all have to understand that this is all publicity. Keyshia was working(well rather her publicist) was working. Keyshia didn’t write that. But you all are on it like white on rice. Lol. (Silly Rabbits). Elite responded very tactfully, so that her followers/fans/audience(whatever you want to call them) would receive her side. As she was correct to do so.

    I kept reading “keyshia did this for them, Keyshia did that… They shld appreciate”

    Excuse my urban but “Negros, every single one of them appreciates Keyshia for allowing GOD to use her”. Because that’s who blessed them. Not Keyshia alone. God didn’t need to use Keyshia to blessed their family, but he did. Frankie doesn’t say anything negative about her daughter. She refuses too, even when people like I will. She rebukes it. Elite loves her sister and so does Neffe. As Keyshia loves them the same. That’s the end of the story folks. Simple! You bloggers, are just creating a story to be entertained by. But maybe you shld call your (brother, sister, mother, etc) and tell them how much you love them and how lucky you are that your little spats are not in the media for ignorant mofos, to dawg you because your family is not perfect. Now you may say they put themselves in front of the media. But people you must realize that TV was fake 20+ years ago and its still fake in its own way today. With that said there is a difference from judging a TV “character” negatively and judging a human beings actual situation negatively. The Devil has just created an excuse for us to stone people the 2010 Way. Don’t fall for it people.

    I didn’t write this to dawg anyone. Just in hopes that you all pull it together and maybe try to shed some positively to them, instead of ridiculing them like Jesus was. We are past those days. Now in 2010.

    Thanks,
    Esquire

  80. Family is Family and Crazy is Crazy – when your family is crazy, and disrespectful, and destructive and greedy and manipulative….. you love them from a distance.

    Where was all of this “family is family” thinking when Frankis ABANDONED EVERY ONE OF HER CHILDREN! Why is Elite not as concerned about her connection with her brother Sam as she is about her connection to Keyshia? Is is because Sam can’t give her money and notoriety?

    She supported Keyshia’s career? HOW? She just met her 18 months ago. What did she do, buy her first CD? This is crazy. You really want to heal your family, write Keyshia a private letter, and get your mother and your sister some help.

  81. I really understand completely where Elite was coming from because in Keyshia’s statement she mentioned her name, so her comment was irrelevant under the circumstances. But then to on both sides family is family and a lot wasn’t thought about when they start making the reality show and all. But Keyshia isn’t always right about everything that is done or said. YEs in life sometimes you do have to distance yourself from people including family to get a piece of mind but then to there is a way to work it out. BUT everybody here wants to comment and say that she magiclly appeared she didn’t she has always been there but with another family but there isn’t a convience w/ family U are either there or you not. But “LEt GO and LET GOD” !!!!

  82. Keyshia is a grown woman and if she feels the need to distance herself from her family for a while for her own peace of mind then she should do that by all means!! I think its hilarious how people are acting as if family can never take a person to a point where you don’t wanna be around them. Most likely its deeper than these public statements that have been put out.

  83. It’s unfortunate that this whole thing is playing out front in the media for all the world to see. I have nothing but respect for K.C. for being brave enough to step back. When you’re pregnant you don’t need a lot of stress around you. She has always expressed her love for her family. But this is her time. She is about to bring a child into the world and has any number of other things going on. K.C has always appeared to have a level head. If they truly love her, in time they will come to understand her choices. Her mother is going to be ok . She had her tiime, made her choices, served her time and now she is free. It’s time to stop the madness find your children and stop the cycle of brokeness for the next generation. I’m sure like in all families there are many things we probably don’t know about this situation. I would appeal to the family members to keep private. I wish them all peace and happiness.

  84. true enough family is family…….and no matter what u do or say family will be family……HOWEVER…..Keyshia shouldve BEEN put some space between her and her family…..Its not disowning its not turning her back on them……It comes a point in your life when all the drama and bs is pointless…….Keyshia is about to be a mother!!! Seriously Im proud of her for having the courage to say I cant do this anymore…….Doesnt mean she loves them any less……it just means she needs time to start her own family……HOPEFULLY this will make her family realize they need to calm the phuck down and get some act right…….Congrats KC……looking forward to the new album….

  85. im glad that keyshia is takeing her on stand in life i myself had to do the same thing to my family and now after twenty years i have peace in my life u just don t know until it happens to u then u will have to cut family lose i knew kc from ca and my family is just like hers and i had to let them go and now i have a peace of mine so don t be mad at kc be mad at your self kc is going to be a mother now im glad she took a stand for her and her new baby and the man in her life some time people come in your life who u love and can see the hurt and how family use u and can help u see the lite thank god so live your life kc and let go of others that r no good for u let them stand on there on two feet love ya baby miss wendi take care peace

  86. I blame Keyshia. She got her mom out of prison early and put her in a world she wasn’t not ready for. She should have let Frankie make baby steps and let Frankie choose if she wanted to go right are left. Frankie a recovering drug addict and stay drinking and partying that’s not a good thing. They need to work it out.

  87. I agree with Jameile, I have a 32 year old son who played football. I would never do anything to embrass him. I wouldn’t be at the club all on the floor, I would not dare get on a radio show and say my son did want to have a baster child and Frankie did state that Keyshia was married. I alway wonder why if you are not a Mother 20 or 30 years ago and you get a second chance make the best of it. Frankie wanted to be a sister not a parent. Sometime it true you have to distance yourself from family. Family will bring you down quick, People talking about Mrs. Cole thank God for her, if it had not been for her Keyshia could have been a drunk, house full of children or drugs, so whatever Keyshia do with her life it her life. Now she has to live for her child the baby is #1. I would never have nobody who will bring confusion to my home. God did bring them together for a reason and maybe God told her when to move on. Now if anybody think that I wrong go back and listen to V-103 and listen to that interview. Because I will never listen to that show again. I was hurt for her and no matter how my kids my son have I would never call or think the word baster.

  88. I agree with Elite. You don’t abandon your family when you get a new man in your life. Keyshia’s family been ghetto but now all of a sudden it’s a problem.

  89. I know the pain of this whole family and one day this chaos will come to pass…One thing that is an actual fact “when the head falls what is the tai suppose to do but follow” So get the head some help is KC the head NO NO NO that’s the problem everybody thinks she’s the head…FRANKIE is the head.

  90. Everyone in that family is doing what they do best, looking out for their self. Everyone is an adult and should be able to take care of them self and their own family. So I truly do not see nothing wrong. People that keep saying family is family so what. You come in this world along, and you die alone. You dont take your family with you when you die. I am sure no one would want to go with you either to death. lol Everyone family is not all that.

    Mine family is a good family, but at the end of the day we were raised to support ourself and not each other. We did not grow up looking for handouts. We did not grow up trying to get rich off our family members either. I truly believe if you want to get rich that you should step out on your own without the help of a rich sibling or whatever. Make your own way in the world. If fame is thrown at me because of someone in my family’s fame, I would not want it because I did not earn it. Doors are open up to people because of fame (Keisha) but it does not mean that they should put her down for the same thing she gave them. Elite all on utube turning her but up doing the stanky leg, come on, this is one of those get rich or die trying senario. Frankee acting all crackheadish, and Neffe done told all the family secrets in that book of hers but hey if she happy, she sane. Not to mention the new house that come from her book deal. O boo hoo its about family, yeah right.

    Its about me myself and I’s. If you want to throw Keisha in it for putting her family on television, ok lets do that do. Then at least we can all agree, it’s all about money for all of them. But family is family only if they are doing things that make you better emotionally, not physically. Privacy in dealing with things is important because they all have threw that out the window in their quest for the almighty dollar. They all wrong. I hope the remaining siblings stay out the limelight because they should consider theirself completely embarassed. I would want no part of this circus.

    Maybe this is where Keisha is at. Maybe her head was full of dreams at the thought of finding her family. Most children who grew up without their family dream of this perfect family, in this case, she most likely did not know what she was opening up. Now, all she can do is move out the way, because she cannot be responsible for other adults actions, only hers. They all up in court now. Pretty soon someone will be trying to sue her in this libel world. She has to protect what she has made right? Just like anyone else would.

    I do not believe family should put family in this situation. I’m Keisha this or I’m Keisha that. Get off the gravy train. I am sure they got something for being on her show. She did not exploit them, they wanted that money. Anyone of them could have said no, yet none did. Who fault is it when you an adult, do a job, and refuse to leave when the job is over? Do you keep breaking stuff, to stay on the job? Do you get what I’m saying? No you do the job and then it’s over. Not in this case, it just keeps going, and entertaining for this family should not be where it’s at. Go out and get some real jobs and quit hanging on to fame by destroying who produced your fame. If Neffee, Elite or Frankee fame came by other means other than Keisha, I would say oh well, make a fool out of yourself, but it did not. It was her livelyhood first, so who are they to destroy it? That is the way real family look at it, why destroy what someone else built? Our parents told us all the time, if you pay for it you will take care of it. Keisha family did not pay for it, they just assumed fame. Only because people like their stunts, just like people like reading the National Enquirer, they will continue to watch this mess on television. We love it when people get triffling. It the same thing as running to a fight. Well the bible say dont be swift to run to destruction. For the rest of you I say two wrongs dont make a right. Even if Keisha was wrong for putting them on television, they were wrong for doing her television show. When does doing what is best for the family win out over fame and fortune? There are other family members that they should take account of, maybe not all of them want this type of attention on their family. Anyone ever thought about that? Decency should come first in a real family, if not, than I say you have nothing to base off of. If a family is not decent to protect all members, than to hell in a handbasket with that family I say.

    True family looks out for the benefit of all members in that family without destroying other family members goals, dreams, and aspirations. Money on the other hand…

  91. “Let Go and Let God” —Wishing KC a healthy baby boy and a happy life. Will she reconnect with her biological family members again? Maybe.. Maybe not. Looking from the outside I believe that KC loves her family and will reconnect with them one day. Right now, it’s about her and her unborn child. One can always forgive, but sometimes one can never forget the horrible things said about them at the end of the day. That goes both ways. Family is very important, but sometimes you have to take care of you and let go of all the drama just to have some sanity. God will see this family through whatever they are going through.

    We can be on here all year going back and forth expressing our opinions, but the truth of the matter is that they are family and that’s something that will never change.

  92. Family is nothing but a word here on earth without love, respect and decency dwelling within it. In heaven there is no respect of family, only the love of God is respected there. If family is so important here on earth, then we should treat strangers as family as well. We don’t. That word family means nothing unless you are doing what is right to uphold it. (Love, Respect, Decency) Some people only hang onto family as a fail safe plan to their inabilities. This is the only reason they value family, so the unit will rush to save them when they are in trouble. Be an adult, support yourself and don’t place others including your family in a position only as a bail out/backup plan. That is taking advantage of people and the family unit, and it stands in direct opposition of the structure (family unit) itself. No one wants to see that or understand it.

    If a person wants to walk away from their family let them. People do it all the time in adoptions, and other ways that I do not prefer, abortions, suicide, murder. A person has to do what is right for them. Only they know that. It must be for a ggod reason knowing how most people value family. Don’t project your family and values onto another because they might not have what your family has. These kids were not raised with their mom. The family is not intact, they are trying to reconnect the family. Well there is more dynamic involved here, as they were not all kept and raised with the same family unit. They are the same as putting a bunch of different people in a room and expecting them all to agree. They will not.

  93. Keyshia is not abandoning her family because she got a new man. She’s taking a break. She’s becoming a mother. How do you idiots not understand that?

  94. I think the situation is rather unfortunate. I feel the only remedy to this situation is time. Keyshia has not turned away from her family, rather she just has created some much needed distance. She is a business woman, and her families actions whether they were getting paid to be themselves or not, is not a good look for Keyshia. She’s REAL in her lyrics… we saw her fam in her show. ENOUGH was indeed ENOUGH. BET was selfish to only think of the ratings and money the ‘Frankie & Neffe Show could generate. BET is first and foremost a television station thats dedication has ALWAYS been to the music industry. This reality show and BET’s greed is who I blame this on. Keyshia family were thrown into a industry that they CLEARLY were not prepared for, thus mass embarrassment for Keyshia and themselves. If I wanted to see rediculous situations, drug dealers, abusive reality.. I’m livin in it. Blacks, hispanics and whites alike ALL go through the same situations there’s no entertainment in exploiting a disfunctional family. They need to have more respect for themselves. I believe they should have told BET to stick that show up their behinds.. because seriously they became the laughing stalk of reality television.. pl literally tuned in just to talk crap about the stupid crap that happened. I’ve seen some growth from them though.. and hopefully this is a lesson learned… All the riches in the world can buy family. I pray that they get some couth about themselves and respect their daughter/sister enough to back away from the limelight.. they have all gotten their 15 minutes now let Keyshia have it back. Support her in the background… don’t exploit yourselves… RESPECT yourselves. You owe it to yourselves and them babies yall had all plastered over the television.. in the middle of all the chaos. Keyshia’s right.. she’s thinking about her new family and that is more or less Boobie… but definitely ALL about that precious baby boy soon to be born. When u have children you gotta make decisions for their well being. It was not any any of those childrens best interest to have been put on those camera’s amongst all that drama & chaos! Godbless

  95. wow-people must forget the relative they dont have in their life right now because they are toxic-keisha is not talking to elite because she is hanging with the others so what ever she shares with elite frankie will find out and spread-she misses you very much and everyone but sometimes in life we all will do it move on with our lifes. there is a difference between family and relatives and keisha tried so hard to combine the two. my mother abuse me pretty much like in the movie precious so because she my mother i should have her watch my children. or if you have a relative that sexually abuse children would you have them watch yours. all im saying family is not an excuse to have people in your life-its ashame but sometimes GOD gives you lessons to move on not to stay in depression>if you right down on the list all the things that keisha done for you or you wouldnt have if she didnt come to find about her family versus her now just staying away you would see GOD gave you the blessing to share her world a little to make your world better. neffe had 3 kids and keisha had her come to atlanta to save money instead had two more kids while married. i wish you all the best- and Elite she does not put you in the same light as the other two but they have influence you and she is proud of you and talk to you later ok. ohh and one other thing Elite if it was for keisha would you even know the family your protecting becasue how many years went by and frankie didnt find you. the world know who all you guys are because of her talent and know the world is paying to watch neffie and frankie show to laugh at and see a train wreck happen>i wouldnt want to be known for that but i guess people do anything for a buck

  96. I am seeing now that Elite posted Keyshia had the baby to see if it would be blogged, knowing that KC had not had the baby. What kind of person does that knowing her sister has been rushed to the hospital prior and sent back home? Do you Elite supporters seriously believe Elite is blameless now? Sad SHE WOULD STOOP THAT LOW.

    Elite you need to quit playing with your sister’s life. You are no different than Frankee, you are causing her distress at a time in her pregnancy when she does not need it. Childbirth is as close to death as it get, and you playing. You playing and you have given birth to a child, you have no excuse.

    Grow up, and your show needs to be boycotted.

    All YOU are doing is TRYING TO BUILD SUPPORT for YOUR SHOW! WE need to boycott them until they gain some decency and order to their lives. They are making all decent black families look bad. We have enough stereotypes to bear without yall trying to blast your dysfunction at our expense. All money not good money. Don’t sell your soul to finance fame.

    BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT THE SHOW- If you want to teach them a lesson BOYCOTT. It’s not funny anymore! Write in and BOYCOTT! Tell BET or whoever, We’re sick and tired of them.

  97. I am a big time Keyshia Cole Fan and reading this blog was so hurtful. I am def not 1 sided and just feels this family needs help for real. Keyshia does probably need a break from all the drama but FAMILY is important!! Her son should no his real family neices and nephews! Keyshia introduced her family to the world and this was her story and I commended her for that. She can’t just give up on them now! She has crazy money! What happened to counseling, family outtings, gatherings! I don’t agree with Elite for goin in so hard there are better ways to go at thungs she shoulda gave it time and reached out to Keyshia instead of blowing up the blogs and giving the media fuel for the fire! Overall I just want more from this family! It started with Keyshia and I have grown to love them all and want to see more from them! I know Keyshia love Frankie and especially Neffie! They go thru a lot but with God I hope they grow and come together especially when the baby comes! Big up Keyshia and her family whether yall say Ghetto or what that’s her family and yall REAL!! Work it out!! We want to see more I was mad Keyshia was in not 1 of Franke and Neffie shows! That’s was stupid and not real!! Is Keyshia down for her fam or not she introduced them 2 America and they grew on us all!!! SIDENOTE: Elite jus want wanna be a superstar!! Give it up u are nobody!!

  98. Okay, so I read majority of these comments now I have some things to say….for starters, I do know Elite and her son and son’s father…Kai is very well taken care of and her baby daddy is far from a crackhead. He is a well known rapper out here in The Bay. Before they moved to Atlanta they were both doin good out here and

  99. yes they did gain fame from being Keyshia Cole’s sisters but they did not ask for any of that of course it comes along with who she is. Now from what I see the only one’s who seem to have their hands out lookin for something is Keyshia’s adoptive family. Yes Keyshia did buy Neffe a house, mind you after she begged her family to move out there so they can get closer. And Neffe proved she could do that on her own by giving that house to Elite and buying her own…that’s what u call family. Neffe wasn’t looking for anything when doing that. You bitches on here are so quick to throw out there all this stuff they (Elite and Neffe) gained from her, but DID THEY ASK FOR ANY OF IT? NO all they wanted was to be a better family.

  100. All I can say is, I hate to hear that the family is not speaking. Hopefully this is just a regular family issue that has taken a drastic turn for K.C. to decide that she wants to distance herself. I have a father that drinks and acts a fool and I decided to distance myself away because I don’t want my children growing up the way I did. I like the family and friends that were on television, hopefully they will all get it together. And we must never put god or the church out of anything because GOD is the ALPHA and OMEGA. let this family do what they do, eventually they will get it right. I have my own family to deal with and can’t tell them how to deal with theirs I guess all the comments come from the Huxtable families.

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