Are you desperately seeking reality in this delusional world? As this year comes to an end, we should reflect on what’s really REAL in our lives. It may be necessary to hit the re-set button as 2016 approaches to re-calibrate our inner compass. Let’s get R.E.A.L. and take the time to focus on our R.elationships, E.nvironments, A.ctions and L.egacies!
As a reminder –
- Relationships impact us the most and should always be positive. There is absolutely no room for negativity. With that said, evaluate your circles and be sure that the people that are in them meet certain standards. There may be a need to let some people go (like leeches, users, liars, cheaters, complainers, abusers, etc.)…don’t hesitate to do so.
- Environments have a great influence on us as well. Simply put…. Avoid places that may be negative influences and situations that may tempt you to do negative things.
- Actions speak louder than words…don’t talk about it, be about it! But be sure your actions are a reflection of your character, as you get your “hustle & flow” on daily.
- Legacies are carved in the hearts of the people you leave behind. The choices we make in the life we live, determine the kinds of legacies we leave. What will people have to say about you?
Each day that you are blessed to open your eyes… Focus on mastering the game of life, by winning at life choices and being a champion at personal decision-making. ~Doc Mel
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Doc Mel is a Relationship & Lifestyle “Encourager” & “Inner-Spirit” Life Coach! Author of a new provocative “pocket-sized book” for African-American women entitled “KISS…Keep It Simple Sistah” that’s now available online at Amazon Books. She outlines “Seven Principles” women can adopt as they relate to each other, children, and men. It’s REAL, RAW, & UNCUT! www.docmel.info