Nope, I didn’t mean to say mesmerized but indeed dickmatized. Jill Scott confessed to Jamie Foster Brown from Sister 2 Sister that she was once dickmatized.

What exactly is “dickmatized”?
“Where you get caught up in the whole sexuality of your relationship but it’s not going anywhere… Just somebody giving you the goods but not necessarily giving you the rest—or not expecting the rest from them. What I’ve discovered is, although it may be a lot of fun, it is also a waste of time and you might be blocking your blessing—blocking somebody who wants to be more to you than just a great time in your life.

How did you become un-dickmatized?
“Just realizing what I have to offer. I’m so much more than my flesh!” .

Jill Scott has always been very honest about her sexuality and you can do nothing but love that about her.  She even came out recently and said that celibacy is a thing of the past for her. If you make it to date five with Jill you may be lucky. Ladies, have you ever been dickmatized? Fellas, do you know how to dickmatize a woman or have you ever even did it for that matter?