Tameka Raymond has been taking a lot of heat lately in regards to how she feels about Usher.  Some people seem to think she’s trying to make him look like a bad parent on purpose. Apparently, there’s more to the story than we thought. Tmz recently reported that she brought up Saks cards in her custody battle, but Tameka says its more than just financial issues. Tameka was upset  because Usher assured her she would be able to maintain use of their Saks VIP benefits card, a special members perk that she used to buy  things for their children which in turn saves him money. Usage of the card was part of their divorce settlement, it doesn’t cost him any money, it’s just a card Saks extends to their VIP customers, and Tameka can use cash, AMEX or any other kind of money and receive a 25% discount. Tameka confirmed to BOSSIP this is what she meant by “she can no longer enjoy the benefits of the card.â€
Thats just the little stuff. Tamekas’ main issue with Usher occurred a few days ago at their son Cinco’s birthday party.Last Saturday was Cinco’s birthday and Tameka held a party for him at her place of  business. The party was held from 3pm-6pm and Usher was supposed to pick up Cinco at 6pm and keep him until 8pm, however, when he arrived at 6:02 pm the party was still going and Cinco hadn’t opened his gifts. Instead of Usher coming inside and waiting until the party was over her refused to come inside and demanded Tameka to bring Cinco to him. She also said that when Usher brought Cinco home at 8pm he brought his current girlfriend Grace Miguel with him (disrespectful)— the woman he cheated on Tameka with — to the home he and Tameka used to share.(Tameka confirmed that this happened over the Thanksgiving weekend, when she had a house full of family visiting from out of town.
We hope that things works out between the two of them and they can come to some mutual agreements for the kids sake!
thats her fault…she could have had the party from noon to three…lets be real
IF HE PROMOISED HER SOMEHTING HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH HIS SIDE OF THE BARGAINING BUT THATS PETTY FOR BOTH OF THEM TO GO BACK AND FORTH THE REASON WHY USHER ACTING LIKE A ITCH CAUSE HE REALLY IS A LADY I DONT CARE HOW MANY KIDS HE SHOOT OUT HIS PENIS THATS A BITHC MOVE CUTTING OFF THAT CARD AND YOU KNOW YOU GENERATING MAJOR STACKS OFF YOUR SELF AND THE MANY OTHER BUSINESS VENTURES HE GOT GOING SO CUT THAT OUT HOMIE TAKE CARE OF YOUR UGLY BABY MOMA EVEN THOUGH SHE AINT CUTE AT ALL SHE GOT ATLEAST STAY FLY OFF YOUR EXPENSE FOLLOW ME AT BLACKJEW_ TEAMM FOLLOW BACK
Those boys looks just like him but I think she is going overboard a little with this
Is this story for real.
I don’t even like Tameka but she seems rational in her complaints and demands towards Usher. Why would you bring that bitch to Tameka house after the history of bad blood between the two? Usher I’m gonna have to offer you a seat _/
It doesnt matter if Usher brought another woman to her house…Im sure HE paid for it anyway, AND he’s moved on with his life. Her main concern should be those children, not no damn SAK’s card. This old ass bitch has delusional priority issues. She suonds real bitter and jaded if you ask me.
what does canceling a charge discount card and bringing his love interest to her house have to do with his parenting??? Im all the way confused -LOL
she should just give him those kids to raise on his own and let Grace be the mommy. Didnt she already scrap her first set of kids anyway??? She doesnt want to be a mother. She just wants the perks and benefits of it
Usher went from fuckin Chilli from TLC.. to this wilderbeast???- SMH
#where dey do dat at?? O-o
Does this make either of them bad parents?????
I suggest counseling. Their children are the people suffering. Hell they are confused more than likely.
In meantime, wk towards be respectful to each others time with the kids. Focus on showing them unconditional love…..and side note: A Saks card is not mandatory! Neither is bringing your bitch to your your home to pick up your kids from their mother. Some things are better, left alone.
Focus on loving your kids and doing what is best for them everyday! Women and men will come and go, it doesn’t matter. Your kids do matter!
Your relationships outside your children, directly affect them when you are presenting him/her to them.
If you are not with your kids very often, then you should cherish the time you are able to spend with them. They don’t see you everyday when they go asleep. They don’t see you every morning when they wake up because you don’t live them.
I can understand sharing some visits with your current friend, but definitely not all and every one of them. I don’t know if she is always present or not. But when you have your children, she should understand and respect that time as “their time”. Especially if you already know that is going to be a problem between you and their mother, your ex-wife. I don’t see any reason why she needs to tagging along behind you to come pick up your kids. How often do your kids see just mommy and daddy having a parental conversation together? How often do your kids see mommy and daddy not arguing or fussing or fighting?
Kids need to see and know unconditional love and healthy relationships, established by their parents, and with their parents.
wow some of guys are acting like u know this women saying all this vicious things about her knowing their are three side to a story. there are some men out there who dont see or take care of their kids and think he should and Grace should have some care not to come to her house because their are still scars from him seeing her behind her back ladies u would be upset too . but lets work it out because he want to be a part of those kids lives.
I’mma need Tameka to have a seat on a Pier 1 lawn chair. _/
LET’S SEE HOW YOU WOMEN WOULD FEEL IF YOUR BABYDADDY BRINGS THE GIRL HE CHEATED ON YOU WITH TO YOUR HOME!!!! HUMMMMMMMM I am waiting…..I’m gonna need all of you to have a damn seat.
@Ayisha, he has & I offered them both to come in & wait till my son was ready. I couldn’t care less. Yes, he cheated with her while with me, but she did me a favor. If it makes her feel secure to come pick my son up, that’s on her. When I go pick up my son, I will go in & sit as I wait for my son. I did not, do not & wont ever care. Neither of them matter that much to me.
@Calling you out & Gab, completely agree. All this over her SAKS ‘benefits’ being cut. Lady PLEASE!
Whether or not the anger is over a Saks account, his girlfriend, or whatever. There is a contractual agreement in a marriage and a divorce. He and she will abide by the agreement, or their will be consequences to pay. That is then legal side.
…..The reality is that the children appear to be used for his/her benefit. Both parents have a responsibility to their children to be protectors from hurt and pain. If they want to hurt each other, that is there own damn business b/c they are grown….and not my advice at all. It won’t make a bad situation better (only worse).
I suggest that they figure out a way to get along and be respectful to each other. (flip it) It would be disrespectful for her to bring a man (she knowingly) cheated on her husband with to come pick up her kids from his house. Their marriage ended with vows being broken in many ways. He has yet to call her out for cheating???? Being a celebrity doesn’t give you a pass to cheat and leave your family for some new cooch-I’m just saying.
If they don’t take steps towards being better parents..going forward it may be hell for birthdays, holidays, graduations, weddings, etc. Is this really how they want to raise their children?
When will the woman understand that what she really wants from Usher, will NEVER happen. She wants him, but he don’t want her. So she will try everything, including starting a mess in the media just to get the mans attention. Tameka if you read this understand , you can try all the tricks in the world , but Usher is never coming back to you, either you deal with it and live with it or just KILL YOSElF
If Tameka knew that Usher would be picking the kids up at 6:00,she should have had the party earlier. I’m sure if he did bring Grace by…she stayed in the car,since he refused to even go inside. She’s just upset that Usher has moved on with his life and left her in the dust. The only reason she’s trying to get custody is because she probably saw that photo of him and Grace in a jewelry store looking at rings.