WOW what is the world coming to. A video of 14-year-old young lady Amber Cole performing oral sex on her ex-boyfriend went viral over the last week.
The event took place outside of their high school while two other boys watched nearby and recorded it. Eventually websites and social media grabbed a hold of it and ran wild. Now the young girl has been attacked and defended on social media, with the trending topic being “Leave Amber Cole Alone.”
Hmmm, there is no question as to whether Amber did the deed, but does she deserved to be ridiculed? HELL NO!! In her attempts to win back her boyfriend, she did something really dumb and the fact that it was taped and she did it while all his friends watch doesn’t help. But she is a 14 year old, and if people knew half the ish teenagers do all the time, better yet, if people remember all the things they did as teenagers, this wouldn’t be so hyped up.
I was told the videos was leaked after the Ex-boyfriend wanted to end their on/off relationship, so he decided put out the videos so that she would leave him alone .
Now comes the question of where are the responsible adults at? First being the parents of the girl and the boys involved? Second, school officials.
Third, everybody who sat and watched the film and had a negative comment about the actions of these young people, instead of reacting to the fact that something like this is common place in our society and because of the social media has the impact to destroy someone’s life.
The false rumors are spreading across the net that the poor young lady had committed suicide, let’s take some time a pray for the young girl.
We really gotta get this cyber bullying thing under control…and get our kids and community back.
Its sad to see some of the things people are saying about her … UpDate Coming!!!! Â Pray for her and her family …. Lets let her know it will be ok!!!
yall shouldn’t put this up
No, they should have put it up there it will hopefully teach other kids like amber ( and their parents) to think secondly when it comes to things like this. I believe that this is a learning experience for everyone school officials, parents and teens alike. Now the schools can be more proactive in sex education and the parents will now know to sit down with their teens and preteens and have a very serious talk about sex and all of the major responsibilities it comes with. Just because some folks have done it when they where that age doesn’t make it right in the least bit. however, I also know that it’s not her fault or the young guys fault either. especially when you have people out there names super head (karrin stephens) making how to books and music producers and artist making songs like lollipop and magic stick ( just to name a few). Kids amber age and younger are being exposed to this grown up behavior and they are not being taught how to wait and what to wait for or at least wait until you can handle the resposibility of sexual activity ( the good and the bad).
i agree with everything u said freddyo….ppl are quick to judge and don’t stop to think that these are kids. kids who don’t know themselves and aren’t emotionally capable of handling what people say about them and unfortunately that’s why so many kids are committing suicide. instead of saying negative and degrading things why not reach out to help them so things like this don’t have to keep happening. and the sad thing is some of the main ones saying these horrible things have done it themselves and should be the last to pass judgement. let he who is without sin cast the first stone…meaning everyone needs to keep the negative to themselves. we too often forget what its like to be that age and the pressures that come along with it…i pray that she can overcome this and become a better person
Amber was a girl who freely and voluntarially performered oral acts on her boyfriend in public….to call the girl a victim is ridiculus to me. You allowed yourself to do that in public and becasue some kids filmed it and it got around theres no way you should feel like you were violated when you were in PUBLIC!!! It’s sad because kids are doing this everywhere and the punishment needs to also go to the kids involved.
R YU SERIOUS? SHE’S THE VICTIM? YEA THE WORLD IS COMING TO AN END BECAUSE INSTEAD OF HER HEAD BEING IN THE BOOKS HER LIPS ARE ON A DICK SHE NEEDS TO BE TALKED ABOUT AND RIDICULED MAYBE (JUST MAYBE) SHELL LEARN FROM THIS MESS FREDDY O YOU CAN’T BE SERIOUS WITH THIS POST. NO MATTER WHAT I DID IN HIGH SCHOOL GIVING HEAD WHILE IT’S BEING RECORDED ISN’T ONE OF THEM. AND YES SHE DID IT BECAUSE SHE MADE A TWIITTER PG TALKING ABOUT IT BUT DELETED IT CUS SHE COULDN’T TAKE THE HEAT. THIS IS SAD HOW OUR WORLD DEFEND MADNESS LIKE THIS, SO IN YOUR EYESITE SHE DID NOTHING WRONG SMH THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF A YOUNG LADY WHO WILL BE PREGNANT BEFORE SHE GETS OUT OF SCHOOL WILL DROP OUT OF SCHOOL AND NO MAN WILL NOT MARRY HER BECAUSE OF THE TYPE OF WOMAN SHE WILL BECOME….NO SHE NEEDS TO BE TALKED ABOUT SO SHE CAN LEARN FROM THIS (and that’s if she learns from it) YOU KNOW PPL TALKED ABOUT JESUS BECAUSE HE DID GOOD AND YOUR SAYING SHE DON’T NEED TO BE TALKED ABOUT AND SHE DID SOMETHING WRONG WOW WOW WOW SMH
Well first of all the screen shot wasn’t necessary at all…
Now…I’m 28, remember when giving head was nasty? Or was that just me and my friends? Nowadays teens have no qualms at all about oral sex. At 14 I was playing truth or dare with friends but the most it went was kissing or touching…you mean to tell me kids are filming sex tapes now? Smdh…what a sad world we live in. And whoever watched that tape should know their watching child pornography.
As far as her being a victim, I’m on the fence. At the end of the day she made a horrible mistake that caused embarrassment to her and her family. But the fact she has adults harassing her about it is sad. We really do need to be praying for this going lady. We don’t know her home life or the environment she was raised in…we don’t know her story. Instead of judging her or repeatedly running this story into the ground…hint hint…she should be given time for her family to handle this. The only difference btwn her and these other fast ass girls is that, hers went viral. So let’s not treat her like she’s the first little girl who gave head. Now everyone who has a teen daughter, cousin, niece…go threaten her life if she ever did anything like this…now. thank you.
Sad…she had to kill herself. DAMN R.I.P
Thats what her ass get aint no need for her mom and whoever to feel sorry for her. She knew what the heck she was doing. She 14. 14 is the new 20. Damn now days 14 yr olds look and think like a 20 year old. She knew what was she was doing esp. when she knew ppl were looking. She was not trying to win her boyfriend back. Shes just the school HOE. Ppl gotta bisect the photo. HERE GOES NTHN:for 1 she is down on her knees comfortably like a pro. She appears to be doing it with no hands like a pro. The way the boy is holding her head is like “yeah i got her ass now you next bruh”” and then she outside which mean she a IDGAF HOE. then to top it all off ppl looking at her ass n she knew it. which make her an ALL AMERICAN IDGAF HOE. man please that aint her boyfriend thats just the story she running with to persuade the dummies who believe that shit and who 4got that they were once 14 and had better lies than that.
She is a minor and aren’t there laws to protect them from having sexual videos and pics put up? Since when is this legal? Secondly, as a 14 year old, your brain is still developing especially in the frontal lobes where decision making and rationale takes place. That’s one of the reasons why teens do stupid things. What saddens me is that we think its ok to put things like this up in our community. I’m not shocked by what she did, I’m shocked at how much attention it has gotten.
PARENTS Dont understand that this is what is going on out there with there kids. Her reputation get damaged while he get high five. I dont see anyone saying anything negative about him and his friends. What girls dont understand is that sex cant make anyone stay. She and other youngs girl that decided to have sex so young and to do it in public in front of other kids showns not respect or cared for herself. It make me really sad. i spoke to my daughter about this because everyone in her school is talking about it and taking it as a joke and also calling her names. People please try to act like humans with emotion more than calling this girl names. What her family must be going through right now. Girls please dont think having sex early is going to hold anyone.this is a stage where young men who is not raise to respect women are only thinking of doing and saying anything to get that goodies. please be strong young girls.respect is the key.
As a parent of a 13 yr old daughter, I refused to watch the video… or look at any pics. I spoke with my daughter about this… and let her know whats going on in this cruel world. As a parent, we need to stop shielding our children from the evils of the world only for them to go and learn it from their peers. I didn’t know about this til yesterday and my daughter knew the DAY after it went viral….. this taught her an important lesson and although its very sad what happened to Amber, a lot of lil girls will think twice before putting themselves in that same situation. So sad to say, there is a good thing that will come from this…I’ve been trying to stress to my daughter that a lot of lil’ boys these days learn everything they know from music and the videos and to NEVER trust any of them, this video is PROOF of everything I’ve been telling her….. I will continue to pray for Amber, and her family. This would KILL me if it happened to my daughter!!
All the people above saying nasty negative things about her forgot all the things they did when they were teenagers. You never had sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend behind the bleachers..in a car..in the backyard..given him head in the movies? The only difference is no one has it on film to prove it.
All those boy(s) who had the act performed, watched, taped it &/or put it on the web, needs their behinds whooped just as much as she does. Every last one of them needs their behind whooped, starting with Amber.
Where is her self esteem in not wanting to do something like that in front of all those people? Where is the boy’s heart in having her do this in front of his friends? Where is the sense in the other boys for sitting there & watching it? All of them lack respect, humbleness, & humility. I don’t even like seeing others tongue each other down in front of me.
If my son was one of the boys, I’d beat his behind. If she was my daughter, I’d damn near kill her. If the guy who got it was my son, I’d damn near kill him too. Blame should be placed all around.
This saddens me.. when I first heard about this i didnt know what people were tallking about I just kept hhearing Amber cole on the computer.. I then seen someone stat , and I was like did some really put up a video of a girl giving brain… I clicked and said Wow,,, i immediately closed it, because I dont want to be apart of the group of people watching child porn.. but I will say this world is scary … the fact that this lil lady felt the urge to suck a guys penis outside a school in their uniform… I was waiting wondering if someone would of came out of the school then what… just sad.. at 14 I was still a virgin ,, kissing only ,, no sexual acts at all let anole oral sex,, the first time I gave oral sex I had to be every bit of 18 out of school and a lil more mature… i dont feel sorry for her , I just feel that we have to take this and if u have kids use this as a prime example of what reality is… that lil boy is just as much to blame… he acts like he cant get a std for getting some head action… and so can she.. sigh*** Im def gonna talk to my boys and let them know that the same shit thats disrespectful for a girl is for a boy.. Im raising respectful lil men over at my house,,, they will have to muc respect to ever let that happen …well hopefully. JEez!!! this is sad
If I were that girl…I’d be so mad right now. This BOY had no right just like grown men don’t have the right to take what’s done in the privacy of the two and post it all over the damn internet.
Now….I hope people here and everywhere take heed to this situation. I don’t know how many times I converse w/ my nephew deterring him from posting pictures of himself shirtless and such. I can’t stand this trend of sitting in the damn bathroom taking half naked pictures of yourself and posting them online for the PLANET to see! Yes…we are living in a global village. How sad is this now that this girl is stigmatized, this may affect her education, work…these are long term lateral thinking philosophies that no one pays attention to. Thank GOD I ain’t a teenager! shyt!
Ok ummmm I was not giving brain at the age for 14 lmbso! This is rediculous and she is not a victim, sorry….. Come smh, yeah what is this world coming to, to let a 14 year old think its ok to suck a boys bird on school property. Freddy O I like your articles, but this is that BS and I can not cosign to that mess.
i agree people are so judgemental especially adults, they tend to forget they once upon a time they use to be young and used to do the same stupid or “why did i did this” also
Please, this biich was proud of what she did, she is not a victim, shes an idiot with no self esteem or love for herself. I wanna see what her parents have to say about THIS!!
And to those of you who are blaming the media and artists…give me a break. Listen, parents want to ppoint the finger and blame everyone else in the whole world for your kids actions including total and complete strangers that dont even know your damn kids. So you want me and other strangers and famous people to watch what WE do and say so YOUR kids dont do it? When you gonna put me on your payroll? Not my kid, Im not getting anything out of you being a parent. WTF do we care? And even if all sex was taken out of the media, who you gonna blame when your dumb kid blows someone else publicly? Start being a parent to your damn kids or dont have any. Period.
I HEAR SHE HAD OR THERE WERE CHARGES PRESSED AGAINST THE BOYS. WHY!!! U (AMBER) DECIDE TO GIVE A BOY HEAD IN PUBLIC ON THE BACKSTEPS OF YOUR SCHOOL BUT WANNA TALK SH*T ABOUT THE YOUNG DUMB BOYS THAT PUT U ON BLAST??? GTFOH!!!!! THE ONLY ACTION THAT NEEDS TO BE TAKEN HERE IS AMBER’S PARENTS NEED TO WHIP HER AZZ PRONTO. I’M SO SICK OF THESE FAST TAIL GIRLS… I HOPE THIS IS A LESSON TO ALL OF THE OTHER FAST TAIL GIRLS TO STOP BEING SO DUMB AND EASY………..JENNY JONES!!!!
my boyfriend tried to get me to watch the video,i refused to me that just child pornography. i agree with freddy on his “where are the parents?” point but this girl is not a victim. Was she forced? they video taped it. I understand that when your young you want attention but again ” where was the parents?” somebody should’ve told her that she was loved and didn’t need to to that kinda stuff. but i don’t feel as though she was victimized because there was a camera, she knew about it, and this happens too often for you not to know he will put it on the internet.
This girl say “she did nothing wrong” are you serious she was “sucking a boys !?@#. Let this be a lesson to these fast ass girls, stop putting yourself in situations like this and focus on your education. Parents wake the f!uck up and watch your kids, boys and girls.
These kids are exposed to, too much and are pressured to be to grown too young and the results are this. My heart goes out to this girl, I just hope moving forward other young girls will learn to leave these immature boys alone and focus on more important things like their education, good grades, focusing on college, a career, working pt, saving money and working on improving themselves.
I came from a home that taught me “NOTHING” and lack supporting anything I did so I had to dig and find love for myself, so I speak from experience.
I’m 29yrs old and have 3 children and know what it’s like to be “known” as a “teen slut”. We see the stuff on tv, on Maury etc., and everybody wants to slander, point fingers, place blame and all kinds of other stuff, but the fact of the matter is that somewhere down the line, this child was misled. If it weren’t from home, it came from somewhere. I can say this because I grew up a preacher’s kid. I was molested at age 4, by a close family member and was also told by my own father that I would never amount to anything to any man. I had my reasons for the things I did growing up, but the truth in the matter is that back then, I wanted attention, but it was the wrong attention. I never got videoed, but from the way I was slandered everywhere I went, and by my life not being as “social” due to what people won’t let me outlive, the things I did may as well have been. My family slandered me more than anything and I was astranged from my family because of it. Never got the “help” I needed, except being thrown into mental facilities and group homes, etc. When I was molested, the guy went free without a care, because he was a family member, and as my father said, “You need to let this thing go.” No charges filed, no questioning, no nothing. I stayed angry with my dad because of that. It’s sickening, but what can you do about a parent who doesn’t care for the protection of his own child? Nothing…So, I had a choice, but didn’t realize it until it came time for me to raise my own children.
For me, it was a lack of knowing my own self worth because I was taught that I was nothing from a young age. I’ve never known what it’s like to have someone want me, for more than what I could do for them. Had I been taught better or loved differently, then maybe my life would be different. Even still, I had a choice. I made the choice to seek something I wanted in the matters of things that made me look like a tramp. I can’t be upset with anyone for that but myself. True, my father and his brother played a role, but in the end, it was me… I had to look myself in the mirror everyday. I was the one who didn’t know how to accept my own image. I was the one who hated myself. Instead of realizing that I needed someone to talk to and seeking to speak to someone who could show me how to love me, without tearing down the image of my being, but I chose to be a fast a**. At 17, I had 2 kids (twins), but by then, I had made up my mind that my lashing out, with my body, was over. I had two kids to raise and I had to do something with myself other than to feel sorry for myself. Believe it or not, I still graduated from high school, not in the position I wanted, but in the top 25% of my class. I didn’t miss a day in school either and getting a G.E.D. was not an option. Adversity still stuck around and I still had people, my dad mainly, telling me that I wasn’t gonna be sh*t, and it hurt, but I had myself and my children to think about. I wanted to die long before my kids were born. I attempted suicide several times between the ages of 12-16. I hated me, because of what I looked like. Yes, I was teased, taunted, beat up, etc., all the things kids go through during those years, but all I wanted was for somebody to care about me. I didn’t understand how selfish I was being though.
As for this girl, she may not be in the same position that I was in, but still its gonna take somebody with the heart to express to her that she DOES have a choice. The love that she is seeking, is not the kind of love that she needs. Theres a difference in having a deep desire of lust for something and wanting to be accepted by it, but what she needs and should be getting is the proper guidance. Someone needs to step up because there are so many of our youth doing this kinda stuff, thinking this is what life is made of. I’m not, although I use to think I was a victim, but now I know thats not the case. Even still, we all have a duty to step up and help somewhere, but it starts in the things we share whether it be in the way we talk, act or whatever. Slandering the girl is not going to help her. Truth be told, the only thing that kept and keeps me moving is the fact that I know only God can judge me. What I did as a teen is not who I am, that was just a part of my growing stages. I had to get through those things to get to where I am now. Personal determination is all I have and being ashamed is no longer my downfall. Folks need to quit acting like they’ve never had a moment in life where they shamed their own name. Use that to help somebody… Jesus did… We don’t know his WHOLE life story
It is a sad story, but i feel that chidren need to learn that sex does not belong at this type of places.Schools , Churches. At your job, any were in the public is a bad idea to be doing these type of encounters.But let us do our best not too further damages these kids there reputation even more, cuss these kids still have a long & bright future ahead of them.
yeah that was sad she was wrong because if she knew some one was recording the video she should have stopped him from doin it but she did not so she must liked it and then after all this she want to cry about the mess she did that was reall sad and oral sex outside the school building baby head should have been in some bokks insted of between some nigga legs but hope she think before she do anything else next time and at 14 baby i would be somewhere skating at the park wit my friends would not even be thinking about sex …………….. 🙁
AT THE END OF THE DAY YALL CANN NOT FAULT AMBER BECAUSE EVER ONE IN THIS WORLD HAVE DID SUM WRONG AND THE NIGGA DAT PUT DHT STUFF UP THERE SHOULD BE A SHAME YALL ALL SHOULD BE A SHAME YALL CAUSEN THAT GURL LIFE HELL AREADY SHOOT THATS WHY GOD DIED ON THE DROSS FOR US BC THE THINGS WE HAVE DNE COULD BE FOR GIVEN MAYBE EVEN SO ALL HAVE DNE SUM LIKE DHAT JZT HAVEN GOT TAPE OR NUN BUT YHU HAVE SO GET OFF THAT LIL ASS GURL AND SHOW SUM RESPECT
First off they want to say that she was being bullied and thats why she did it.. She made it worse on her self. I i dont like how there saying she’s a victim. a victim of what giving BJ. She already kno that they was taping it and this is not the only video she have so.. And forget that little girl stuff she not a little girl when she start have sex with people. she did it willingly. WAS SOMEONE HOLDING HER HEAD…NO ..DID ANYONE BUT SOMETHING TO HER HEAD FORCING HER TO GIVE DOME ..NO
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